"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Can BPD woman really change?

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I don't know for sure if my ex is BPD but damn after reading some articles (Mauser96 previous post) and the one below, it's possible. This post isn't all about bitterness and oh she destroyed me, NOPE.

If anything I'm glad I experienced it and it was short lived. Knowledge is power, if I see these glaring red flags in the future I will know exactly what I'm dealing with and what to do.

This woman seemed somewhat normal at first, good career, decent house, new car.

My jaw dropped quite a few times after reading this article, written by a psychotherapist.

http://www.bpdfamily.com/bpdresourc...he new emotional tampon on a leash, no doubt.
 
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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