Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Can BPD woman really change?

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I don't know for sure if my ex is BPD but damn after reading some articles (Mauser96 previous post) and the one below, it's possible. This post isn't all about bitterness and oh she destroyed me, NOPE.

If anything I'm glad I experienced it and it was short lived. Knowledge is power, if I see these glaring red flags in the future I will know exactly what I'm dealing with and what to do.

This woman seemed somewhat normal at first, good career, decent house, new car.

My jaw dropped quite a few times after reading this article, written by a psychotherapist.

http://www.bpdfamily.com/bpdresourc...he new emotional tampon on a leash, no doubt.
 
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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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