backbreaker
Master Don Juan
curious. thinkin of startin a new fad
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
can black people grow mullets?
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"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Dust 2 Dust
Master Don Juan
Yep, it's called a frolett.
Julius_Seizeher
Master Don Juan
I think there were a couple hideous rap groups in the early 90s who tried it, their mullets fading into history...
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Victory Unlimited
Master Don Juan
Wow...you guys are young.
Long before the mullet became the haircut of ridicule for the white community, in the early eighties we black people also had our own version of it.
Back then, especially here in the dirty south we used to call it "The Shag".
Check out any early Shalamar (Howard Hewett) video from the early eighties on Youtube, or better yet, check out ANY Lionel Ritchie video ALL THROUGHOUT the eighties.
Shalamar:
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=K5d23xNp5EE
Lionel Ritchie:
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=b_ILDFp5DGA
Ain't nothin' new my friends, it's just variations or innovations on the same old thing---------with a different name that "the kids" might be calling it these days.
RESPECT to you my brothers.
Soldier on.
VU
Long before the mullet became the haircut of ridicule for the white community, in the early eighties we black people also had our own version of it.
Back then, especially here in the dirty south we used to call it "The Shag".
Check out any early Shalamar (Howard Hewett) video from the early eighties on Youtube, or better yet, check out ANY Lionel Ritchie video ALL THROUGHOUT the eighties.
Shalamar:
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=K5d23xNp5EE
Lionel Ritchie:
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=b_ILDFp5DGA
Ain't nothin' new my friends, it's just variations or innovations on the same old thing---------with a different name that "the kids" might be calling it these days.
RESPECT to you my brothers.
Soldier on.
VU
Capodeciña
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See, now backbreaker says he's growing a mullet, its alright?
But when I said about the rat tail, I got bashed for it.
The mullet is one of the worst hair fads I've ever seen.
The rat tail (the proper one) reaks havoc and is ftw. Lots of Columbian and Brazilian playboys, pimps and naturals have this. Wouldn't Black people have to straighten the back a bit (perm) or unless you want it like a afro?
But when I said about the rat tail, I got bashed for it.
The mullet is one of the worst hair fads I've ever seen.
The rat tail (the proper one) reaks havoc and is ftw. Lots of Columbian and Brazilian playboys, pimps and naturals have this. Wouldn't Black people have to straighten the back a bit (perm) or unless you want it like a afro?
Bible_Belt
Master Don Juan
I think Jheri Curls are kind of black mullets too. The preferred coiffage of bamas and rednecks respectively.
Cornrows remind me of mullets too. Mullets are only appropriate on old beer-drinking hell-raisin' OLD white men and cornrows are only appropriate on cute as a button pre-teen black girls. Or little white girls who have just returned from a trip to the Jamaica. Otherwise they have a similiar amount of fail attached to them.
Cornrows remind me of mullets too. Mullets are only appropriate on old beer-drinking hell-raisin' OLD white men and cornrows are only appropriate on cute as a button pre-teen black girls. Or little white girls who have just returned from a trip to the Jamaica. Otherwise they have a similiar amount of fail attached to them.
MikeBrown30
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To be honest, I think you would look better sporting one of these hairstyles backbreaker:
http://img22.imageshack.us/img22/9579/thesepeopleexistpart319.jpg
http://img541.imageshack.us/img541/2394/frohat.jpg
http://img22.imageshack.us/img22/9579/thesepeopleexistpart319.jpg
http://img541.imageshack.us/img541/2394/frohat.jpg
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
taiyuu_otoko
Master Don Juan
You're too late. Asking silly questions on internet forums is already quite popular.backbreaker said:
