Went out with a girl on two dates, all went well. Go to her place for the third date, have sex, stay the night, go home. Then you have a few short convos the week after.. things are still the same flirty etc, then all of a sudden she ignores you. What just happened? Do girls lose interest after sex just as much as guys do? Or didn't I pick up on the subcommunication that this was just going to be a fling?
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Can anyone relate?
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