Went out with a girl on two dates, all went well. Go to her place for the third date, have sex, stay the night, go home. Then you have a few short convos the week after.. things are still the same flirty etc, then all of a sudden she ignores you. What just happened? Do girls lose interest after sex just as much as guys do? Or didn't I pick up on the subcommunication that this was just going to be a fling?
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Can anyone relate?
- Thread starter JesterX
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