"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Can Anyone recomend good Self Help Books?
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
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"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
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Hey,
Here is one........
'Think and grow rich' ...by Nepoleon Hill.
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Francisco d'Anconia
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"Psycho-Cybernetics," definitely.
Francisco d'Anconia
Master Don Juan
Why?
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
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Francisco d'Anconia
Master Don Juan
Could you explain what the book is about and actually compare it with what is covered in the other books since you have read all of them?? How are we to believe that it's head and shoulders over the rest without you explaining why?
Gangster Of Love
Master Don Juan
Absolutely. Not only is Maximum Achievement his best work, but in my opinion there is no greater speaker/author, life changing content wise, than Brian Tracy.
Psychocybernetics is one of those MUST reads. I just got the audio on cd's.
Unlimited Power by Anthony Robbins.
Advanced Selling Techniques, by Brian Tracy. Even if you are not into sales, as a carreer, you are in sales, throughout your life. Many persuassion tips, etc.
Aztec
Master Don Juan
Originally posted by Francisco d'Anconia
"Psycho-Cybernetics," definitely.
I have Psycho-Cybernetics.
I HIGHLY RECOMMEND READING THIS BOOK!
I also have The New Psycho-Cybernetics.
Sorry, I know this topic has been beaten to death but I just have to say it.
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.