"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
Can Anyone recomend good Self Help Books?
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
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Hey,
Here is one........
'Think and grow rich' ...by Nepoleon Hill.
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Francisco d'Anconia
Master Don Juan
"Psycho-Cybernetics," definitely.
Francisco d'Anconia
Master Don Juan
Why?
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
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Francisco d'Anconia
Master Don Juan
Could you explain what the book is about and actually compare it with what is covered in the other books since you have read all of them?? How are we to believe that it's head and shoulders over the rest without you explaining why?
Gangster Of Love
Master Don Juan
Absolutely. Not only is Maximum Achievement his best work, but in my opinion there is no greater speaker/author, life changing content wise, than Brian Tracy.
Psychocybernetics is one of those MUST reads. I just got the audio on cd's.
Unlimited Power by Anthony Robbins.
Advanced Selling Techniques, by Brian Tracy. Even if you are not into sales, as a carreer, you are in sales, throughout your life. Many persuassion tips, etc.
Aztec
Master Don Juan
Originally posted by Francisco d'Anconia
"Psycho-Cybernetics," definitely.
I have Psycho-Cybernetics.
I HIGHLY RECOMMEND READING THIS BOOK!
I also have The New Psycho-Cybernetics.
Sorry, I know this topic has been beaten to death but I just have to say it.
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.