"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Can Anyone recomend good Self Help Books?
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"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
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“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
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Hey,
Here is one........
'Think and grow rich' ...by Nepoleon Hill.
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Francisco d'Anconia
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"Psycho-Cybernetics," definitely.
Francisco d'Anconia
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Why?
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
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Francisco d'Anconia
Master Don Juan
Could you explain what the book is about and actually compare it with what is covered in the other books since you have read all of them?? How are we to believe that it's head and shoulders over the rest without you explaining why?
Gangster Of Love
Master Don Juan
Absolutely. Not only is Maximum Achievement his best work, but in my opinion there is no greater speaker/author, life changing content wise, than Brian Tracy.
Psychocybernetics is one of those MUST reads. I just got the audio on cd's.
Unlimited Power by Anthony Robbins.
Advanced Selling Techniques, by Brian Tracy. Even if you are not into sales, as a carreer, you are in sales, throughout your life. Many persuassion tips, etc.
Aztec
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Originally posted by Francisco d'Anconia
"Psycho-Cybernetics," definitely.
I have Psycho-Cybernetics.
I HIGHLY RECOMMEND READING THIS BOOK!
I also have The New Psycho-Cybernetics.
Sorry, I know this topic has been beaten to death but I just have to say it.
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.