"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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can anyone explain to me what NLP and SS are?

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sorry ive never heard of them.. and Im not quite sure how they work can anyone give me a brief introduction and a guide to them pleasE?

thanks
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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NLP - neuro linguistic programming. It's basicly a certain model of human psychology with emphasis put on practicality and immediate use in reali life.

I'm aware of two seduction systems relying mainly on NLP: Speed Seduction and Sexual Key.

Some people swear that NLP is humanity's greates invention, but looking at NLP under certain angles makes it look like some of cult sometimes.

SS -speed seduction. First application of NLP in seduction, later evolving into a 'seduction system'. It relies/relied heavily on 'patterning' - a way of speaking designed to by-pass conscious thought and affect the target on the subconscious level, affecting target's emotions.

Does SS work? Yes. But there are many traps to avoid and IMO you would do better if you would forget about it before mastering some other , more basic skills.

In short, SS is marketed in not a very honest way and it's creator , Ross Jeffries is known for omitting important (negative) facts about his system.


Quick fact: Speed Seduction is being used by some extremely succesfull seducers...BUT it's used as a ADDITION to their game, with conjunction with other methods. In contrast, people try to use SS and only SS seem to end up having very little success.



Mike
 
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