Can anybody figure this girl out?

[hellfire45]

I know this girl, who is very good looking. She complains every once in awhile about not having a boyfriend, but whenever any girls approach her to flirt, or ask her out, she tenses up, and they get rejected.

I have been trying to figure out the best way to approach this girl, without blowing my chances...so far, the only thing I can think of that brings less anxiety to her, is to call her on the phone to ask her out. But, I feel like I would look like a coward if I did this. It seems to be just 1 step up from asking a girl out on Instant Messanger, or a chat room... Anyway, I don't know why this girl complains, then tenses up, but does anybody have a suggestion about how to approacher her, and "complete the sale?"

I would love to her it, and would be very grateful.

Thanks.

 

[seulaxplaya]

lack of details but Ill make some assumptions

ok bro I take it you have already spoken with her considering you said you will call her. In order to have the number u must have spoken with her before. If this is correct. Next time you see her just go up to her and just shoot the breeze. Ask her what shes doing this weekend or week and then talk about what your doing and if its something fun be like "it should be fun, why dont you come?" That would be a good approach. NOW if you havent talked to her before just go up to her and shoot the breeze and pretend your not interested. Then at the end be like "man it was great talking to ya, but I have to get going. We should hang out again sometime." Then go from there

 

[squirrels]

If this girl is professing to you that she can't find a good guy...

It's not like she's going to suddenly say, "Hey, I never noticed you before!!" LOL

 

[PuertoRican_Lover]

Are you two friends??

Maybe she was hinting to you that she was available!!!

Ask her out directly and jokingly tell her that you will relieve her of her lonely existence (neg hit) - do this in person!!!

 

[Eternal]

*Sigh* Please don't post the same thing in two forums...Thread Closed.