"Blank Mind on Dates? She's Dropping Hints You Keep Missing"

The plates get cleared and the silence lands like a brick. You can feel her waiting. Your brain offers up your commute, your job, the weather — topics that have ended more second dates than bad breath.

Here's what most guys never learn: women hand out free conversational material all night long. Tiny clues about what they actually want to discuss. Catch them and you never run out of things to say — because she's telling you what to say next.

Rule 4 of the "22 Rules" trains your ear to catch every single one.

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Can anybody figure this girl out?

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I know this girl, who is very good looking. She complains every once in awhile about not having a boyfriend, but whenever any girls approach her to flirt, or ask her out, she tenses up, and they get rejected.

I have been trying to figure out the best way to approach this girl, without blowing my chances...so far, the only thing I can think of that brings less anxiety to her, is to call her on the phone to ask her out. But, I feel like I would look like a coward if I did this. It seems to be just 1 step up from asking a girl out on Instant Messanger, or a chat room... Anyway, I don't know why this girl complains, then tenses up, but does anybody have a suggestion about how to approacher her, and "complete the sale?"

I would love to her it, and would be very grateful.

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"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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lack of details but Ill make some assumptions

ok bro I take it you have already spoken with her considering you said you will call her. In order to have the number u must have spoken with her before. If this is correct. Next time you see her just go up to her and just shoot the breeze. Ask her what shes doing this weekend or week and then talk about what your doing and if its something fun be like "it should be fun, why dont you come?" That would be a good approach. NOW if you havent talked to her before just go up to her and shoot the breeze and pretend your not interested. Then at the end be like "man it was great talking to ya, but I have to get going. We should hang out again sometime." Then go from there
 
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If this girl is professing to you that she can't find a good guy...

It's not like she's going to suddenly say, "Hey, I never noticed you before!!" LOL
 
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Are you two friends??

Maybe she was hinting to you that she was available!!!

Ask her out directly and jokingly tell her that you will relieve her of her lonely existence (neg hit) - do this in person!!!
 
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*Sigh* Please don't post the same thing in two forums...Thread Closed.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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