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How do I prevent this...?
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
can any ol girl use find my phone to track me?
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
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Cuz I have a habit of telling girls I'm at place A when I'm really in place B.
And I think some girls would frown upon. Knowing the truth....
And I think some girls would frown upon. Knowing the truth....
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
RangerMIke
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Don't lie to women. They always know when you are lying. She doesn't need to track you with a phone app, she will always knows. I know this is hard for people to fathom, but very few men can REALLY hide anything from a women they are in a relationship with.
You might think you are getting away with something, but trust me... she is just tolerating the behavior... putting git in her memory bank and when she is ready, she will hit you all at once with ALL the sh!t she has stored in her memory banks.
Anyway back on topic. Turn off your phone if you do not want to be tracked.
You might think you are getting away with something, but trust me... she is just tolerating the behavior... putting git in her memory bank and when she is ready, she will hit you all at once with ALL the sh!t she has stored in her memory banks.
Anyway back on topic. Turn off your phone if you do not want to be tracked.
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It's just a bad habit...
Like, I say I'm at the gym when on fact I'm at the library.
I just don't like running into girls at certain times. Not cheating or kicking puppies. Just a little white lie.
Like, I say I'm at the gym when on fact I'm at the library.
I just don't like running into girls at certain times. Not cheating or kicking puppies. Just a little white lie.
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drop that habit then. it's a bad one
logicallefty
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Aside from tools like "Find my iPhone" mentioned above, your GPS location can be inter mingled into most anything on your smartphone if you aren't paying attention... For example, ever see on Facebook a private message from someone you are talking to that says "Sent from CityX" or whatever? Also, did you also know that if you take a picture with your phone with location services on your location where you took the picture at will likely be embedded in the picture in whats called "Exif data". Cyber investigators love that sh|t, and the tools for the lay person to get access to this data are getting easier to come by. Some sites strip Exif data out of any pictures uploaded to them, but some do not.
Bottom line, don't give your passwords to women you date, and turn off location services, and you will probably be OK regarding women tracking you.
Bottom line, don't give your passwords to women you date, and turn off location services, and you will probably be OK regarding women tracking you.
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I just don't like some people knowing where I am and not saying anything turns into a whole ordeal so....yea
No harm no foul
No harm no foul
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Tictac
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Turn off your GPS locator on your phone.