"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Can a woman wear sexy underwear not for reasons of seduction?

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I understand the source of complaints against lifestyle advertising like Victoria's Secret's, which perpetuates the idea that "sexiness" is mostly about showing off for someone else. Making purchases purely for the sake of seduction seems tacky and compliant. Futile, too, when, as my family was eager to remind me, I'm usually the only one who notices.
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My take is that ALL women are biologically predisposed to "showing it off" and that if a woman is wearing sexy underwear, she most definitely wants to show it off to a man worthy enough for her.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Mike32ct said:
Even if nobody sees it, I think she still secretly gets an erotic thrill from wearing something sexy. It makes her feel "naughty" with that trashy thong, even if no guy sees it.
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I have to agree with this.
 
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I think Mike got it, to which I want to add something.

Women want to feel desired as much as men want to feel powerful.

A girl wearing that trashy thong feels like she can be desired as much as a manowning powerful cars in his home feel powerful even if he doesnt have the licence to move them to in the highway or drive them in the city center..

In both the cases there is no realization of the potential but there is the potentiality to realize it, in this case they are not desired or powerful but they feel they are.
Its more like confirm to themselves rather than get confirmation from the outside.

Nobody knows she wear her underwear but if she has to she can achieve being desired given the right conditions, just like the guy can use his unlicenced vehicle to pass all the others car
and affirm his superiority. (I used the car example but it could be guns for a survivalist who aim to be powerful against the gov, or the high tech computer for a nerd).
 
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Mike32ct said:
Even if nobody sees it, I think she still secretly gets an erotic thrill from wearing something sexy. It makes her feel "naughty" with that trashy thong, even if no guy sees it.
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I agree 100%. I actually did have a woman tell me that she enjoys having that secret; that under her plain everyday clothes she's got something immaculately sexy underneath.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Dear MDJ,
"My take is that ALL women are biologically predisposed to "showing it off"......I totally agree with you,they are mostly "Show Ponies"...Sooo...Learn to dance....What an opportunity for a Woman,to show off her finery and be whisked around and around in a giddying frenzy,by a Man who becomes more valuable by the minute....Any Pit pony can follow as women Do...It takes a lot of hard work and often money for a Man to Master the Art of Leading,learn Dance Craft so he can Choreograph and steer her through the gauntlet of obstructions...
As for lingery,if you have the Bread,then invest in wall to wall mirrors,or at least for your wardrobe doors...keep a stash of finery,then get them to dress up and encourage them to cavort before the mirrors,builds up their Oxy Tocins,makes for good Svex.
 
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Dear Strelok,
"Nobody knows she wear her underwear but if she has to she can achieve being desired given the right conditions," Hmm...must try this one of my Plates,likes to wear no Panties or Bra,at the movies.....On occasion,we go to the late night Ones,usually they are deserted.....She likes to go in alone and then I just turn up and she enjoys to be molested...Kinky Huh?
 
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I do know if she plans on letting you see them...they will match! Catch one with miss matched underwear and "it" wasn't in the plans for the evening. :)
 
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How about no under wear at all and showing off her crack.

That happened to me last week....at the racquetball court of all places.

From her appearance I believed she was either an escort or a stripper.
 
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"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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EVERYTHING women do is for seduction, whether their little hamster knows it or not :)
 
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Well Bro if you go commando and you feel badass you probably didn't do it to seduce ladies :eek:
 
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