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Can a Woman be 0% B!tchy?

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I realized the most amazing thing about a girl I've been dating.

Through 1 year of knowing her, 3 months of dating her, 6 dates, 2 disagreements, and about 250 text messages it occurred to me that she has never once been even 1% b!tchy. She always has a sweet disposition. Whether she is sick, whether I wake her, whether she has no makeup, whether she had a bad day, whether I said the wrong thing - she never, ever acts the way almost every other girl would act.

Could this be the by product of high interest, obviously combined with a naturally sweet girl?

If I were to stop spoiling her and acting as smoothly as I have, if I were to start acting submissive, would she quickly start b!tching? (I won't).

Have you ever encountered such a girl?
 

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I've got one right now. It has only been six months, but this girl radiates this natural sweetness and kindness like a beacon. She lights up any room she walks into. Literally, all heads turn to her because of this radiance she has. I've shown some people short videos of her on the beach and elsewhere, and people immediately remark that she has an amazing spirit that shines forth.

I have tested her massively, looking for cracks in her demeanor, and have found none. And believe, me, I know how to pressure a woman. She is totally devoted, very giving, and she always looks to herself for fault first in any situation.

Will some faults pop up? Of course. Is she attracted to me for the way I make her feel and for her unique perceptions of me? Of course. That's the way women are built.

Some of us here are so jaded and cynical that they think that ALL women are terrible. The fact is that 98% of women are terrible. But that 2% does exist, and when you find one, it is unmistakable.

Things have the potential to go sour in any relationship, including mine, but isn't it better to start with excellent raw material (that upper 2%) and enjoy your time with her, than to start with your average woman and live to tolerate her wacked-out behavior? I can tell you that it's a whole different world.
 

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I've got one right now. It has only been six months, but this girl radiates this natural sweetness and kindness like a beacon. She lights up any room she walks into. Literally, all heads turn to her because of this radiance she has. I've shown some people short videos of her on the beach and elsewhere, and people immediately remark that she has an amazing spirit that shines forth.
Interesting, I referred to my girl as being a lighthouse beacon, and it was the videos of her in particular that captured how sweet she is. In all 3 videos of her (all by surprise) she is pure smiles and positive body language (playing with hair, holding eye contact, and looking down in submission).

Gentlemen, take note: this is what women should act like. Medium maintenance. You spoil them but they are sweet.
 

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My girl is like this too. She is never mad or in a b1tchy mood. It is incredible. So feminine, so delicate, so sweet. They are few and far between.
 

Just because a woman listens to you and acts interested in what you say doesn't mean she really is. She might just be acting polite, while silently wishing that the date would hurry up and end, or that you would go away... and never come back.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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This really should be some encouragement to everyone here. When 98% are bratty, spoiled monsters, it can seem like every last one of them is bad. It's a matter of searching with patience, and not settling for less than that 2% of classy women. This is the first one I've been with, and at 59 years young, I've been around.

I'll add here another thing... We all know that phrase, "When the student is ready the teacher appears". This also applies to women. When the man is ready, the woman appears.

This woman I'm with now wouldn't look at me twice 8 years ago. But over that time period I've refined myself per the teachings at SoSuave, and that made me qualified to attract and hold a classy, poised, gorgeous and intelligent woman.

I advise us all to keep on refining ourselves. This can be frustrating because it happens so gradually that we don't notice the changes. The golden realization is when you realize that you are the superior to every woman, because you are a man. Women want and need a man who is superior to them, period. Not the hard core feminists we loathe in the media, but the real-life girls we interact with day in and day out.

The protected are always below the rank of the protector.
 

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In my case she is a Georgia peach. But I agree that normally I prefer Russian women (she is part Russian). That said, the Russian girl I lived with would be extremely b!tchy after work, to the point where I had to leave the apartment for 2 hours every night. When I returned, she was naked in bed and ready to go.
 

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Girl im with now i cant say she is never b!tchy, but, she is far less than any other I have ever been with. With her it's less intense and less often. Like maybe once a month.The other interesting thing is that when it does happen I just ignore her for a while and without me saying anything she knows when i am displeased. And that always prompts her to apologize for said earlier b!tchyness.
 

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I realized the most amazing thing about a girl I've been dating.

Through 1 year of knowing her, 3 months of dating her, 6 dates, 2 disagreements, and about 250 text messages it occurred to me that she has never once been even 1% b!tchy. She always has a sweet disposition. Whether she is sick, whether I wake her, whether she has no makeup, whether she had a bad day, whether I said the wrong thing - she never, ever acts the way almost every other girl would act.

Could this be the by product of high interest, obviously combined with a naturally sweet girl?

If I were to stop spoiling her and acting as smoothly as I have, if I were to start acting submissive, would she quickly start b!tching? (I won't).

Have you ever encountered such a girl?
Being bitchy is a choice.

It is the same thing as rudeness. When a stranger or someone we don't know very well is "bitchy" we say they were rude. When your girlfriend is rude/moody/unreasonable we call it bitchy.

How you behave is a choice. If they choose to be rude/bitchy you also have a choice
....to not put up with it.

Bitchiness comes in when interest is starting to fall. When a girl stops caring or had lessand less interest they stop caring about your feelings. Sometimes it is to get you to do the deed to dump them. Sometimes it is them just taking the mask off and you are getting to see the real them.
 

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You are talking sh*t, Neil.

I have had plenty of women that I haven't argued with for many months. That is normal. Guys who are saying their woman is "0% b1tchy" have got their head up their arse, and their woman on a pedestal.
So I'm talking sh!t, LARaiders85 is talking sh!t and Atom Smasher is talking sh!t? Maybe deesade just doesn't have any girls who are that interested in him? I was the first to say it's special and rare, and dee saying it doesn't exist only proves it. I'll take it as a compliment.

Atom, LA and I have our next line when we're alone with our ladies: "Darling, you're so sweet, when I describe you, people think I must be lying."
 

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Every woman I have dealt with who doesn't reveal her bitchiness is a lowkey twoface *****. She is the one who is always talking **** behind your back or banging dudes behind your back. Not necessarily not bitchy, just non confrontational is all she is. These are the ones I stay the hell away from. Besides I love a girl with some sass.
 

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Aha! The key is to seek out b!tches. That's it. I'm just b!tch deprived. I'll be sure to have a talk with my girl about how I simply cannot stand for her being so sweet all the time. She should resist morning sex, and sex in general. She should act annoyed by me and curse me out more. Thanks for showing us the way, deesade and Champ Slice! True masters of women.
 

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Aha! The key is to seek out b!tches. That's it. I'm just b!tch deprived.
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LOL. Yes there are women who are straight dealing that you may go years without arguing. They usually "look" a point or two below a "hot girl", but they don't wear as much makeup, they aren't into fashion as much and they aren't slvtty
 

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I realized the most amazing thing about a girl I've been dating.

Through 1 year of knowing her, 3 months of dating her, 6 dates, 2 disagreements, and about 250 text messages it occurred to me that she has never once been even 1% b!tchy. She always has a sweet disposition. Whether she is sick, whether I wake her, whether she has no makeup, whether she had a bad day, whether I said the wrong thing - she never, ever acts the way almost every other girl would act.

Could this be the by product of high interest, obviously combined with a naturally sweet girl?

If I were to stop spoiling her and acting as smoothly as I have, if I were to start acting submissive, would she quickly start b!tching? (I won't).

Have you ever encountered such a girl?
You have been on 6 dates, meaning she is still putting on her front.

Lmfao!!! I read that line and laughed much harder than I should have.

I'm just speaking from my own personal experience, women who are non confrontational are more trouble.
This X100. She will let it fester, then come at you from outer space... Personally, I would rather a woman call me out than avoid conflict. If you are not fazed by it, it shows your strength.
 

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A positive post for a change -- refreshing. Don't let your guide down guys despite you thinking you found your 98%.
 

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Yes. When her interest level is high enough that she wouldn't dare be rude to you.

This is often in combination with the way a woman was raised.

Top shelf women are selective just as top shelf men are. If you are attracting top shelf women you are a high value man. You have much to offer. Great women know they have a lot to offer as well. There is no need to resort to rude behavior or bitchiness when you have options and self confidence. These are women who are sweet but selective.

So you either have a gal who really likes you & wouldn't want to put you off...or you have a woman with enough self confidence she doesn't need to use rude/bitchy behavior...or you have a woman who is some combination of both.

Either way it's a win for the men involved with women who showcase a sweet demeanor.
 

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I don't know about totally zero percent, that's probably inhuman. Not sure if there would even be a guy who was actually zero percent b!tchy. But anyway, my girlfriend is like this. She has a very laid back, mellow personality and we don't argue. It was quite an eye opener for me at first, because I had assumed that women being b!tchy was just a given, like the sun rising in the east. It's very refreshing.

If you are attracting top shelf women you are a high value man. You have much to offer. Great women know they have a lot to offer as well. There is no need to resort to rude behavior or bitchiness when you have options and self confidence.
I would also add that if you are high value and have options, you don't have to resort to game playing either.
 

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A large part of the manosphere is merely a refinement in pedestalising women.

When I ask people what is this "quality woman"? The answer seems to be a woman that isn't hypergamous, doesn't enjoy validation, doesn't sh*t-test (however mildly), doesn't gossip, etc etc.

Basically, she isn't a woman.

This is simply another way some guys use of dealing with the red-pill. "99% of women are trash! But there is the 1% that aren't!"

Women aren't trash, and there is no "0% b*tchyness". Women are just women.

Get over it.
I couldn't disagree more. I was alive 30 years before you were born, and in my early 20s and 30s, women as a whole (hole?) were vastly different. The word vastly doesn't even do the concept justice.

The last 4 decades of media brainwashing has turned them into the miscreants that we deal with today.

98% of women act like entitled, bratty princesses with barely a concept of personal accountability. This is because the media, plus the lack of male backbone and exercise of authority, has hooked into their base urges and cultivated them. We now experience the current state of those base urges overwhelming and completely eclipsing the decent qualities that we men value.

Women are vulnerable to any and every external influence as they have almost no internal locus of control. Men, on the other hand, as rational, thinking beings, observe and consider outside influences but then act based on their internal locus of control. Therefore men are skeptical of those outside influences while women readily feed into and accept them if those influences make them feel good.

This dynamic has been carefully and systematically worked by financial and political interests for the past 50 years (the twofold goal being getting the other 50% of the population working and paying taxes, and the feminization of men to turn them into mindless worker drones), and we deal with the relatively new results of that today.

Your challenge, as a younger man, is to remove yourself from your personal experience and look at the situation on a larger scale, observing and understanding what things were like before 1986, even into the late 1800s, when feminism first appeared in a measurable way.

What you call "women" are internally destroyed, ego-driven monsters who are slaves to the media. That is the 98% of which I speak. They are most certainly not normally functioning women. They are emotionally damaged (and often destroyed) beings who have no idea how to treat men with respect and decency.

The remaining 2% are actual, normal, women. They have escaped the media brainwashing and every single one of them carries a respect for male authority. These are the women who we men need to find, and indeed can find. Do these "normal" women have those base negative tendencies deep down inside? Yes, they do, but those tendencies are tempered with a developed character and again, with a respect for male authority.

Wise is the young man who looks beyond his own time in order to understand his own time.
 
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