Can A Toxic Woman Ever Change?

[Formerlyrossitheking]

The real question is can you change and live free of her.

Sounds like your doing well so far. Job promotion etc.

She had her chance with you. Goodbye.

 

[soulforge]

Block her. Ignoring her and then blocking her sends the same message of disinterest. Don't let your poison ed mind betray you.

i have decided not to block her... she has sent me upto 10 messages on pof so far... all of them i have ignored & not read.. i will continue to ignore her


been thinking long and hard today... i am better off without this woman.. all she ever bought to my life was drama, insecurities, pain, depression

6 months no contact & her poison is finally leaving...

yes she is attractive & the sex was great... but other than that she has nothing to offer?

she dumped me twice... i would forever be watching my back

no loyalty, no security, no trust, no peace of mind.... why go back to this

 

[adam225]

Be nice, book her a psychiatrist....

 

[soulforge]

Be nice, book her a psychiatrist....

well it does seem like she has lost the plot lol

getting stalked by her on pof...


i must admit, it is not easy... as she is a very attractive woman... but defo not a reliable partner for life

 

[MikeOck]

i have decided not to block her... she has sent me upto 10 messages on pof so far... all of them i have ignored & not read.. i will continue to ignore her

Seriously? You should have blocked her a long time ago.

You haven't because you are still very much hung up on her. Your posts scream it. You'll never move forward if you continue standing still. There is no happy ending with her. Not now, not next year, not ever.

 

[soulforge]

Seriously? You should have blocked her a long time ago.

You haven't because you are still very much hung up on her. Your posts scream it. You'll never move forward if you continue standing still. There is no happy ending with her. Not now, not next year, not ever.

i won't deny this... if you read my original post... i admit that i have a moment of weakness coming over me

and the reason why i am posting on here is, so you guys can advice me the right way forward

i still have some lingering feelings for her.. its true... but i know going back to will only end in misery...

this girl dumped me twice and i ended it with her once... but like a fool i got back with her... she ALWAYS comes back!!!

this time round my doors are closed to her for good

 

[adam225]

Women hardly ever change sadly, it's one of those things they really struggle with - it's never their fault no matter what, it's always his or someone else's fault for making her feel a certain way. You need to develop the mindset of not caring and always being able to walk away AT THE SLIGHTEST PROBLEM. As soon as she starts acting like a fvck-up, DUMP HER ASS.

 

[soulforge]

it has been 9 months now since i went no contact on my ex.. even now she is trying to contact me & is trying to hoover me back in for the 4th or 5th time!

she was toxic, manipulative, cruel and put me through some some serious head ****s!!!

i still think about some of the good times we had... but going back to her is something i could never do

i still dont have a girlfriend... i have banged alot of chicks, but nothing serious..

some days i feel kind of low & miss having someone in my life... but i will not let that toxic woman back into my life... no matter how much she begs!

 

[Tictac]

Women can stay crazy longer than you can stay sane.