"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Can a top PUA really get ANY girl?

Guitar_Whizz

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Something else I've been pondering over lately....

Do you think that once you've mastered this seduction stuff, you will be able to get any girl you want....?

Or...do you think that even a master PUA cannot be every girl's type and therefore no matter how skilled he is, he will not be able to get every girl he wants?

I mean, Mystery claims he can approach 5 sets and get 5 girlfriends.

Yet other gurus say that even with a great skillset, you cannot get every girl.

What do you think is the truth?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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No one can get any girl (barring maybe lusted after celebs which doesn't count)

Mystery etc claiming otherwise is BS - not to suggest he really does claim that.
 

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I don't think anyone can get any girl. Woman are very complex creatures and some just like different things. However a man who is good with woman will have success with plenty of different woman.
 
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Probably any seducable girl, or a high percentage of them. I don't think they can crack a non-seducable girl, or someone likely to perceive them as a devil that's out to get their soul.
 

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no. In fact, if you read up more about Mystery you ll realize even he sometimes goes home empty handed.

but then again, why focus on such negative thoughts?

a good PUA can get most girls, that should be enough motivation for anyone to improve themselves
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Mystery's got an ego. I think he's a genius, but I don't think he can get ANY girl that he wants. Some would be definitely turned off by his crazy style. If he steals Catherine Zeta Jones from Michael Douglas, well, then I'll shut up. Until then.
 

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Guitar_Whizz said:
Something else I've been pondering over lately....

Do you think that once you've mastered this seduction stuff, you will be able to get any girl you want....?
You have to be conscious of what you can live with. I'm aware of techniques that would make me even more effective, but sometimes I just can't go there. The classic example that we've all heard of (not a PUA technique, only using this as an example) is saying you love then when you don't. Could you do that just to get them to sleep with you? I couldn't. My personal ethics code just won't allow me. And that's just one example.

But a PUA with absolutely no personal moral code at all could probably be dangerously effective, is my point.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Absolutely not and the top PUAs fully accept this fact.

To me, the game is not so much about mastery over all women, but mastery over the self.

It is important not that you can get every woman, but that you can approach any woman you find attractive.
 

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The Deacon said:
Mystery's got an ego. I think he's a genius, but I don't think he can get ANY girl that he wants. Some would be definitely turned off by his crazy style. If he steals Catherine Zeta Jones from Michael Douglas, well, then I'll shut up. Until then.

Perfectly stated.

This is the single worst part of being a Guru slvt and part of the herd. Boy-men hold these numbnutts in such high regard that they disregard the fact that these turds are deficient in every other area of thier lives outside of closing a set.
 

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if you can control logistics, then yeah

but no one can control logistics

the girl you approach, you don't know everything about her - you don't know if she's in a pissed off mood, if she's a lesbian, if she's in a happy fulfilling relationship, if she's mentally ill, if she's got some abnormal fetish, and all the other things that negate solid game
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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of course not. stop believing marketing ploys. nobody can get ANY girl all the time. Mystery only pics girls who are choosing him. his videos are never in dance clubs..you never see him dance. he goes to lounges...and don't think these girls don't see these cameras and people following him around...they wanna be on tv. stop believing marketing ploys.
 

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Short answer: no
 

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i dont think so. no. pua's can get most of the girls, even some of those that look unbreakable at first, because it all about the temporary attraction that is created.

Guys, you all are forgetting that you can get almost most girls attracted but to keep taht attraction needs for you to demonstrate value. there comes the prob.
 

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Ok to me being Don Juan or a Pick up artist means being able to "play" with a female, any female you meet. Making her feel comfortable in your presence, where you just instantly build rapport and can have a conversation with her and even if there are silences, it's not the uncomfortable silences, both of you just feel comfortable. The physical sex is the icing on the cake but, the don juan can make love to a female in many different ways. And that's what Mystery does he can just talk about anything to a female and stir her thoughts then he uses kino, a form a love making, and if it leads to sexual intercourse then, boom!, even better. You can't ef every girl you want but the techniques should make you able to "play" with any female you meet and make her feel like she knew you forever. This is Don Juan.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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