"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Can a top PUA really get ANY girl?

Guitar_Whizz

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Something else I've been pondering over lately....

Do you think that once you've mastered this seduction stuff, you will be able to get any girl you want....?

Or...do you think that even a master PUA cannot be every girl's type and therefore no matter how skilled he is, he will not be able to get every girl he wants?

I mean, Mystery claims he can approach 5 sets and get 5 girlfriends.

Yet other gurus say that even with a great skillset, you cannot get every girl.

What do you think is the truth?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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No one can get any girl (barring maybe lusted after celebs which doesn't count)

Mystery etc claiming otherwise is BS - not to suggest he really does claim that.
 

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I don't think anyone can get any girl. Woman are very complex creatures and some just like different things. However a man who is good with woman will have success with plenty of different woman.
 
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Probably any seducable girl, or a high percentage of them. I don't think they can crack a non-seducable girl, or someone likely to perceive them as a devil that's out to get their soul.
 

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no. In fact, if you read up more about Mystery you ll realize even he sometimes goes home empty handed.

but then again, why focus on such negative thoughts?

a good PUA can get most girls, that should be enough motivation for anyone to improve themselves
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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The Deacon

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Mystery's got an ego. I think he's a genius, but I don't think he can get ANY girl that he wants. Some would be definitely turned off by his crazy style. If he steals Catherine Zeta Jones from Michael Douglas, well, then I'll shut up. Until then.
 

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Guitar_Whizz said:
Something else I've been pondering over lately....

Do you think that once you've mastered this seduction stuff, you will be able to get any girl you want....?
You have to be conscious of what you can live with. I'm aware of techniques that would make me even more effective, but sometimes I just can't go there. The classic example that we've all heard of (not a PUA technique, only using this as an example) is saying you love then when you don't. Could you do that just to get them to sleep with you? I couldn't. My personal ethics code just won't allow me. And that's just one example.

But a PUA with absolutely no personal moral code at all could probably be dangerously effective, is my point.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Absolutely not and the top PUAs fully accept this fact.

To me, the game is not so much about mastery over all women, but mastery over the self.

It is important not that you can get every woman, but that you can approach any woman you find attractive.
 

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The Deacon said:
Mystery's got an ego. I think he's a genius, but I don't think he can get ANY girl that he wants. Some would be definitely turned off by his crazy style. If he steals Catherine Zeta Jones from Michael Douglas, well, then I'll shut up. Until then.

Perfectly stated.

This is the single worst part of being a Guru slvt and part of the herd. Boy-men hold these numbnutts in such high regard that they disregard the fact that these turds are deficient in every other area of thier lives outside of closing a set.
 

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if you can control logistics, then yeah

but no one can control logistics

the girl you approach, you don't know everything about her - you don't know if she's in a pissed off mood, if she's a lesbian, if she's in a happy fulfilling relationship, if she's mentally ill, if she's got some abnormal fetish, and all the other things that negate solid game
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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of course not. stop believing marketing ploys. nobody can get ANY girl all the time. Mystery only pics girls who are choosing him. his videos are never in dance clubs..you never see him dance. he goes to lounges...and don't think these girls don't see these cameras and people following him around...they wanna be on tv. stop believing marketing ploys.
 

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Short answer: no
 

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i dont think so. no. pua's can get most of the girls, even some of those that look unbreakable at first, because it all about the temporary attraction that is created.

Guys, you all are forgetting that you can get almost most girls attracted but to keep taht attraction needs for you to demonstrate value. there comes the prob.
 

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Ok to me being Don Juan or a Pick up artist means being able to "play" with a female, any female you meet. Making her feel comfortable in your presence, where you just instantly build rapport and can have a conversation with her and even if there are silences, it's not the uncomfortable silences, both of you just feel comfortable. The physical sex is the icing on the cake but, the don juan can make love to a female in many different ways. And that's what Mystery does he can just talk about anything to a female and stir her thoughts then he uses kino, a form a love making, and if it leads to sexual intercourse then, boom!, even better. You can't ef every girl you want but the techniques should make you able to "play" with any female you meet and make her feel like she knew you forever. This is Don Juan.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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