"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Can a slut make a good wife?

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Question for you, the unicorn chasers, when you realize that there is no unicorn, only cows, with two horns. You could cut one horn off, it won't be symetrical, and it's still a cow. What about a ho, young, tasty, and slutty, love queen. Can a girl like that make a good wife? Any experiences?
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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In my experience, I've found you can do your best to keep the frame in a marriage, yet if she slept around before the marriage... it will be difficult to keep her eye from wandering.

It's a battle of needs and wants, these individuals tend to be selfish and inner focused.

When either gender gets used to a lifestyle of many plates in rotation vs. monogamy... it's difficult to make that paradigm shift to loyalty after getting accustomed to the lifestyle. I don't care if either gender is a unicorn, the temptation will still abound.

The wife may aim to impress, conform, fit in with married peers.........yet when the marriage hits some serious roadblocks like loss of a job, parent, sibling, cancer, serious illness, debilitating auto accident, career crisis, identity crisis (think fear of missing out or idealization vs. reality crux of the issue), the rampant behavior ala attention seeking offline/online and more will re-emerge.
 

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Even with a quieter more centred girl you have to keep a reasonable level of frame. So y increase the risk? And the psych issues will be worse when she hits the wall
 

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People can change. So she had a few addictions before she met you. You become her addiction.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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What is your definition of a slut/ho? Judge someone by wether they honor their word/commitments or not. Judging someone by wether they were promiscuous or not, while they were single is for L7's. Show me one person that doesn't like to fvck.
 

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Question for you, the unicorn chasers, when you realize that there is no unicorn, only cows, with two horns. You could cut one horn off, it won't be symetrical, and it's still a cow. What about a ho, young, tasty, and slutty, love queen. Can a girl like that make a good wife? Any experiences?
"Can a slut make a good wife?" asked captain Save a Hoe
 

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Question for you, the unicorn chasers, when you realize that there is no unicorn, only cows, with two horns. You could cut one horn off, it won't be symetrical, and it's still a cow. What about a ho, young, tasty, and slutty, love queen. Can a girl like that make a good wife? Any experiences?
sure if you don't mind to share
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Question for you, the unicorn chasers, when you realize that there is no unicorn, only cows, with two horns. You could cut one horn off, it won't be symetrical, and it's still a cow. What about a ho, young, tasty, and slutty, love queen. Can a girl like that make a good wife? Any experiences?
A fish can't ride a bike. And you can put as much lipstick on a pig as you want, but it's still a pig.

I have a buddy who's now ex was the loosy goose in highschool. We called her the door knob. Everyone had a turn. He didn't know her in school so in a way i felt sorry for him when they got together. She was the party girl and everyone had their turn with her over the course of years.

They met and got together after graduating colleged she suddenly tured into this "good and proper," girl and they got married. I warned him of her past but in his case lonelyness trumped rational thought and he married her anyways.

Well their marriage only lasted 8 years and she had multiple affairs on him in those 8 years and when it was over she blamed everything on him telling him he had no right to try to change her (which he didn't do. She attempted to change herself but instead deceived him,) and told him it was her right she could sleep with whoever the heck she wanted to and he was just there to shut up and pay her bills. Btw did i mention she refused to get a job?

You don't make a ***** a house wife.
You can take the girl out of the party but you can't take the party out of the girl.
 

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My g/f is hooked on the bachelorette tv show. Well the 2017 bachelorette is a celebrity wh0re/party girl who s facing the wall at 37. And shock horror she reduced all the nice genuine guys and went for the rich guy. The whole series has been her white washing herself as a nice down to earth girl next door. Except I remember the drug fvcked orgies with her slvt friends were so wild they used to make the regular papers. I hope he s got an iron pre-nup otherwise he ll b paying for her coke habbit.
 

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Okay don't get married legally it goes against the laws of nature being legally binding to a woman that owns all your possessions

woman are super sexual creatures and if you cant accept that then leave them alone.

guys are the same way, judging them makes you a hypocrit.

if a girl loves you genuinely she won't care about any other guys and you shouldn't either.

it's when you become a judgemental chode she decider to leave.
 

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Can a wreck make a good car? Can rotten food make delicious food? Can a hull with holes make a good ship?

No, you get my point. Except for the food you can fix the wreck and the ship, but the return is probably worth less than the effort.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Hmm u can fix a car but a person s just going to get resentful if you try.
 

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Have to define sl*t first.

If she simply likes f*cking I assume she would be alright. If she likes cheating and gets a thrill from new chases and such, I would say no.
 

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Slut or not is irrelevant
Women just don't make good wives. And this is a fact, not an opinion...
Your odds are prolly better off with a tranny if you really want a wife but just enjoy the women and don't get married is my advice
 

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Can a wreck make a good car?
you can take a wrecked car strip everything down and turn it into a 1000hp formula drift car (;

only if it has frame damaged(gurl rape issues) it's pretty fvcked tho and ready for the scrap will it will rust away and become scrap metal for future cars.

lol? :D
 

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you can take a wrecked car strip everything down and turn it into a 1000hp formula drift car (;

only if it has frame damaged(gurl rape issues) it's pretty fvcked tho and ready for the scrap will it will rust away and become scrap metal for future cars.

lol? :D
So you'd take a hoe (a wreck of a woman) and do all that work to turn her into wife material rather than just find someone you don't have to change? Sounds pretty fvcking stupid if you ask me. Keep rejecting sh!tty women until they fix themselves, that shouldn't be our job.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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