Can a man start at 40?

[Suspens]

People who are unhappy and who live "broken lives" have often been without the results they desire for so long that they no longer believe they can produce the results that they want. They do little or nothing to tap their potential and begin to try to find out how they can get their life to where they're doing as little as possible.

From such actions, what results do they achieve? Of course, they are miserable results that break down their beliefs even more, if that's possible.

The New Science Of Personal Achievement

 

[kukuku]

Atom Smasher has a pretty compelling story.

Of my friends that are virgins, one is a hopeless case that will end up as that 40 year old man and the other is improving every day due to character and willpower differences that Bingo mentioned. Also, hate to admit it but the one improving is better looking and gets attention from women unprovoked, as well as lives in a more robust area for picking up women, which could account for the differences. Negative vs positive feedback loops.

Strangely enough, the more bitter one actually has had more lifetime success with women though....mainly crawling his way out of the friend zone after kissing womens' a$$es...so even his experience is counterproductive lol.

my point stands. a guy who hasn't even had a date by 40 doesn't have a chance in hell of getting a lay. a beta loser

 

[ImTheDoubleGreatest!]

There is something I am trying to figure out. There is a universal language for all humans, maybe a movement or sound or sound with a specific form of body language, that can cause a women to be so turned on somehow just by what you did. I'm wondering how to do it though. Maybe it differs for each person. But, if someone could figure this out, they could marry pornastars in their 90s

 

[Mike32ct]

There is something I am trying to figure out. There is a universal language for all humans, maybe a movement or sound or sound with a specific form of body language, that can cause a women to be so turned on somehow just by what you did. I'm wondering how to do it though. Maybe it differs for each person. But, if someone could figure this out, they could marry pornastars in their 90s

I highly doubt it. PUA gurus have been promising this "Secret Body Language Trick to Increase Attraction 97 Percent" for years.

I don't think body language has much to do with increasing attraction. Poor body language can LOWER attraction, but I have my doubts that "good" body language can materially INCREASE attraction beyond what was already there.

 

[ubercat]

Geez would it be possible. I'm totally Joe Average with minimal game and I've had over 40 women by age 45 including one marriage and 3 other live-ins. Quality was variable but last 3 were at least HB7s - which is all I'm aiming for - you need personality more for the long-haul. Does get harder as u get older - women in their 30s have more baggage than Gucci but hey don't we all ;-)

 

[zekko]

I became aware of the PUA community at 35 and have since met and laid more women than in the previous 20 years.

We're not talking about improving. The guy in the OP's example has never dated, has never even kissed a girl! Can he improve? Well, he sure as heck can't do much worse!

But to be 40 years old and never to have even kissed a girl? That guy is going to have some severe inner game issues that are going to be tap dancing in his head. I can't say it's impossible for him, but he's going to have a huge uphill battle.