Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Stop calling my girlfriend out you jack ass! Sarah has never been in a fight in her life and as long as I'm around I'll make sure she never does.Originally posted by Brother_Rapp
Sarah, I'm sorry I meant PRM.
If your wife to be should punch you in the face, would you been over and tell her to stick the dildo in while she's at it or would you kick her a**?
Brother Rapp is just a straight dumb ass aequitas. He's done too much acid in the 70's and smokes too much weed now to have his mind in the right place anymore. He views women as second class citizens and this is why he thinks the way he does.Originally posted by ~ªêQµïTª$~
Brother_Rapp: I feel sorry for ANY women that knows youTo me it seems that you are trying to act like a wannabe gangster, or maybe u are one?
Either way, you got alot to learn on how to treat a woman, and I suggest seeking some anger management help, and maybe a few "how to treat women" classes
.... Seriously man... your way of thinking will only lead you to MORE trouble and probably jail one day... Snap out of it!
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You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
I'd rather be the MAN who knew to walk away before beating a girl who in all likely hood can't handle themself nearly as good as you can in hand to hand combat.Originally posted by Fatality
Would you rather be known as the guy who hit a girl or the guy that let a girl beat him up?
Whether you are man or woman you shouldn't throw a punch if you can't take one yourself.
Got that much right loser.Originally posted by Brother_Rapp
PRM
You and I don't have shyt to talk about.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Exactly they can't handle themselves as well as a man can physically so they should never under any circumstances hit a man. A 5'2 guy with a half a brain would never hit a 6'5 guy because he knows that most likely he can't handle himself as well physically. Just because she's a woman she's allowed to hit a man? I thought they wanted equality these days. Don't give me bull**** that women won't like him because he hit another girl.Originally posted by PRMoon
I'd rather be the MAN who knew to walk away before beating a girl who in all likely hood can't handle themself nearly as good as you can in hand to hand combat.
There's nothing wrong with walking away from a girl hitting you. No one will think less of you because you don't have anything to prove physically.
I'm in partial ageement with you. I have fought girls in the past but they were fair fights, where the girlswere well equipped. But even in those circumstances I didn't fight to kick their asses, I just fought for a stalemate. Even when it's "justified" I don't feel right about hitting women. I also don't feel right fighting guys who aren't prepared for the engagment they stepped into.Originally posted by Fatality
Exactly they can't handle themselves as well as a man can physically so they should never under any circumstances hit a man. A 5'2 guy with a half a brain would never hit a 6'5 guy because he knows that most likely he can't handle himself as well physically. Just because she's a woman she's allowed to hit a man? I thought they wanted equality these days. Don't give me bull**** that women won't like him because he hit another girl.
I just feel that if anybody hits you first you can hit them back. I wouldn't hit a girl if she slapped me for doing something wrong but if she bloodies my nose it's on.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.