Can a hoe ever be turned to a housewife?

[Malcontent]

Could the "right man" who commands respect and is quality and has a lot to offer ever turn a hor around? Most attractive women seem to be hors, so I'm wondering if there is ever a point in trying to enter a relationship with a 9 or 10. Are there good ones? Maybe I'm wrong about assuming most attractive women are hors, whether AWs or sexual hors. Educate me.

My ex was super hot and I still ponder this because she had hor tendencies and hor past but it all seemed to go away until I became complacent in the relationship and her IL dropped. When I treated her like a child the relationship was good, when I treated her like an equal it began to unravel.

 

[Willard]

Anything is possible, but most likely you can't. When I was an AFC I would always cheat, because I just settled for what I got. After spending a lot of time and effort working on my game, I have integrity and values and I'm hoping I won't cheat. I'm not sure a woman would put effort into becoming a better person. I don't think I would chance it ex-hoe.

 

[SmooveMooves]

Sure you can, but the ones who change mostly do so under two conditions.

1. They've hit the wall and are ready to settle for a Beta Provider

2. Some crazy life experience or acquaint to getting "Jesus" in their lives

As for your standard wh0re, sure, your supreme alphaness MAY be able to keep a wh0re from cheating, but the risk is still there. And significantly higher than a non-wh0re's, so why take the risk?

Smarter to get you a hot chick who doesn't make polishing nobs her life passion, right?

However, to me, it sounds like you may be misjudging what a wh0re is.

What's you definition of a wh0re?

Someone with less than 3 partners?

If you have unrealistic expectations then all chicks may fall in the wh0re category , for HB9-10's to HB4-5's alike.

If you go around expecting to find dimes who've only had sex like twice, you'll begin thinking all chicks are wh0res for real.

So in order to help you more, please, do tell, what makes a chick a wh0re to Malcontent?

 

[Malcontent]

To answer briefly:
-Attention W
-History of cheating
-More than ~5 partners before 20 years old
-Stories seem sketchy

TBH, the worst of all is the attention wh0ring and not cutting off other male contact while in a relationship. It's disrespectful and keeps orbiters on the short leash.

I am convinced 9s and 10s are all AWs after my experiences. Am I wrong?

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Long answer:
With her, in terms of specific events, wh0redom was:

-I asked her out and she said she had a bf, offered LJBF, I said "not interested" and cut contact. 2 weeks later she calls me up and asks to hang -- I ASSUME she is now single. After I bang her for 4 days, she says "I just now broke up with my bf to be with you"
-Starts telling me about getting "eiffel towered" and seems proud. I told her I didn't want to hear anymore. Maybe I should've let her talk more to get the whole picture of her history.
-Tells me some guy in her past wanted to make her an escort/hooker, also as if she were proud. I told her I wanted to puke and she wiped the smile right off her face. She brought it up again months later when complaining about finances.
-Told me she was raped 3 times, described the scenarios, then later starts telling me other "forced" sex tales w/ other "perpetrators" that weren't included in the original "3 rapes" story. I started wondering what was rape, what was regret, what was self-sabotage, fiction/truth, etc. At some point in the end stages of our relationship she said "it feels like you've been raping me for the last 6 months."
-After 2 years together told me she cheated on her ex (the same one she dumped to be with me) with 10 diff guys to "try to understand what happened to her" (referring to rape). (I think this one mentally put the nail in the coffin for me)
-Always hugging some guy friend seemingly anywhere we went. Grocery store, mall, whatever. Always some guy that knew her. Always some guy texting her. Slept with her phone under her pillow. She was also very touchy with guys -- in fact I never recall her being touchy with women. She put her hand on my brother's thigh while they were talking, she put her hand on a guy's forearm at a bar that we both met at the same time. The touching was usually long like 5+ seconds.
-I saw her put a piece of food in her boss's mouth when I was picking her up from work one time.
-She decided about every 3 to 6 months that she was in love with her ex, I'd go NC, and then a month later she'd be back.

I know I made AFC mistakes for sure, but I am trying to learn.

I was very stern with her at the beginning. But I never felt like any previous gfs had to be reprimanded like children, so after a while it was an awkward role for me. In retrospect, she was well-behaved when I treated her like a kid. But I thought I made my boundaries/points clear and moved on. I didn't realize I would constantly have to uphold that fatherly role to keep her in check. And maybe that wouldnt have even worked.

I've had 4 LTRs and the 2 hottest were the most trouble, the last one being the worst.

BTW this chick was 19 when we met. When she turned 21 (and I became aware of her over the top cheating with her ex) I threw in the towel. I knew after she wanted to start meeting her "friends" at the bar it was all over for us anyway.

 

[Jack89]

Congratulations. Sounds like a keeper, I would definitely marry her if I were you.

Seriously I don't know if this is a troll post or not but this decepticon woman you just described seems like you gathered all the bad qualities from every bad girl others complained about and combined her into one being.

If it's not, then just remember a woman who has a past history of cheating and has been raped are huge red flags. It's like buying a a flood damaged salvage car and expecting it to work like a brand new car.

 

[JoeMarron]

Why the fvck would such a man even want to turn a hoe into a housewife? Men who respect themselves don't bother trying to fix broken women when he could have a sane one. And yes, generally speaking as hotness increases insanity increases.

 

[Bayne05]

I think Kanye West is the expert in that department

 

[Malcontent]

Congratulations. Sounds like a keeper, I would definitely marry her if I were you.

Seriously I don't know if this is a troll post or not but this decepticon woman you just described seems like you gathered all the bad qualities from every bad girl others complained about and combined her into one being.

If it's not, then just remember a woman who has a past history of cheating and has been raped are huge red flags. It's like buying a a flood damaged salvage car and expecting it to work like a brand new car.

Not a troll post, true story. That was only a brief highlighting of events BTW. I never dealt like a chick with that before in my life. Maybe I had just gotten lucky in the past. I was ill-equipped with how to handle and my psychological world has been rocked by it.

I look at pretty women and I see that brand of tequila that you never want to drink again, metaphorically. I suppose I learned the lesson later in life than others do.

 

[VladPatton]

Nope, don't even try. She is what she is at her core. If you think a whóre is no longer a whóre, she's become so good that no one can detect her anymore.

 

[YawataNoKami]

Can a hoe ever be turned to a housewife?

NO

 

[goldengoose]

Yes, "technically" she will be a housewife. You can wife her up all you want, she might do some chores, but she will be doing one of the neighbors or another man a few months down the line. Don't even bother to attempt it or you will lose most of your earnings when she divorces you.