In college, there were a couple of occasions where I could have sworn that a girl was checking me out, but later when it came time for my approach (i.e. going for a dance at a party), I would get shot down. The opposite would also happen. I would make a cold approach on a girl, get rejected, but a couple of days later, the girl can't take her eyes off me. What does this mean? Was the attraction all in my head?
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Can A Girl Reject You and Be Interested At The Same Time?
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"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
jakeyboy
Master Don Juan
agreed.
nahh
Who knows? Girls play games, to get them we HAVE to play the game, its just the way it works.
I knew a chick who asked me if I had any money on me, when I asked why? She said we could get a room for the night. I went and booked a room.
So, I fukc her brains out, 1/2 later go in for round two and she says NO. The next day she didn't want to speak to me, just drive her home. She said she felt ashamed, embarrassed, it was a mistake and she wanted to back off for a while.
That was 12 years ago. Anyway, 3 days later she called and told me she had been stupid, so I gave her another and another and another and then........we were married in 1994.
Women are fukced up beyond all recognition when it comes to logic or understanding themselves. Play their stupid fukcing games, fukc it. Just dont get caught by the hairy lassoo, otherwise you will be 38 and having constant affairs on the side.
By the way, having an affair is no big deal. I dont give my heart, soul or money to a root, my wife and kids get that. I am still a man and I need variety and ....thats the mouth she kisses my kids with....know what I mean?
Play the game...it aint that hard, Im findin it easier with age for some reason.
Also, if you wanna preach at me about marriage vows, dont bother, just fukc off now!
Who knows? Girls play games, to get them we HAVE to play the game, its just the way it works.
I knew a chick who asked me if I had any money on me, when I asked why? She said we could get a room for the night. I went and booked a room.
So, I fukc her brains out, 1/2 later go in for round two and she says NO. The next day she didn't want to speak to me, just drive her home. She said she felt ashamed, embarrassed, it was a mistake and she wanted to back off for a while.
That was 12 years ago. Anyway, 3 days later she called and told me she had been stupid, so I gave her another and another and another and then........we were married in 1994.
Women are fukced up beyond all recognition when it comes to logic or understanding themselves. Play their stupid fukcing games, fukc it. Just dont get caught by the hairy lassoo, otherwise you will be 38 and having constant affairs on the side.
By the way, having an affair is no big deal. I dont give my heart, soul or money to a root, my wife and kids get that. I am still a man and I need variety and ....thats the mouth she kisses my kids with....know what I mean?
Play the game...it aint that hard, Im findin it easier with age for some reason.
Also, if you wanna preach at me about marriage vows, dont bother, just fukc off now!
Paintballguy
Master Don Juan
I've seen shy girls do it but I doubt the girl your dealing with is shy so she is probably just playing games.
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
1) She wasn't expecting a guy approaching so blatantly.
2) She said "no" cause she was shy.
3) When you left, it finally dawned on her. Oooh, this guy is cute and he was hitting on me. I should say hi.
4) She says HI and feels rejected, cause you don't reply because you feel rejected too.
5) You lose each other.