"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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calorie intake suggestions.

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instead of going to some lose weight place(weight watchers or la weight loss), i think it would be a waste of money cause i only want to lose 15 pounds.
when i go to the gym i do cardio and just lift weights upper body cause my legs are in great shape.

what is a good calorie intake for the day.

i weigh 188 pounds, and i'm 5'11.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Carbs: Current Weight x 1.2 = g/carbs x 4 = calories

Protein: Current Weight x 2 = g/protein x 4 = calories

Fat: 30g of fat/day = 270 calories

add the totals together

And find out your bf%
 

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if your trying to lose weight you do your bodyweightx12 and that should be your calorie intake so for you it would be aournd 2256


when i go to the gym i do cardio and just lift weights upper body cause my legs are in great shape.
cardio awesome keep that up. only doing upper body....you gotta do lower body to my friend your missing out if you don't do that....squats, leg press,etc those are intense exercises that you should be doing
 

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my dad is a doctor and i'm starting to think he's a quak. he said 1100 calories and i'll slim down quick.

thanks for the help though
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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