"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Calm down.Does less mean more.

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toasttopper1879

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Ok,so I've worked hard in the last few weeks and its fair to say the girl I've been interested in is a done deal.
However I've got into a situation where I'm worried I'm about to go like over the top.The more I get close to her the more I want to be with her.I'm sure I'm supposed to pull back a bit cos I read it somewhere but can I hell remember where.I feel like I'm getting all soppy and I know I should nt be doing this cos I'm like letting her have control.
Its not easy to put distance between her when shes asking you to feel her arse and shes telling you her sexual fantasies and your part of it.
So all in all I'm getting too carried away and I'd love some advice on how to slow down and take a few steps sideways.Does less really mean she'll want more.
Cheers lads.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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TedJustAdmitIt

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In a word...yes.

What else do you have going on in your life?

Like hobbies and interests I mean?
Ideally you'd have too much going on to even be able to spend too much time with any woman.....no matter how horny:D
 
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I'm like letting her have control
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It's all about control.

Control your emotions and your actions and you can control her.

It's one big game - and it sounds like your not playing the game - your letting her play it. For sure you could lose any chance with her - but would you rather go on like it is - or would you rather try and maybe get her or lose her?

It sounds like this little attention Ho is playing with you.

These chicks thrive on attention - so you'd better stop giving her it.

Next time she asks you to feel her a##/whatever - give it a good grab, move in close - then say something like - "not bad, but it's getting a little soft"
 
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toasttopper1879

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I did grab her arse and had a bloody good feel.Then told her to get some excercise.When she's declaring her sexual fantasy I told her to just put on my football top cos I prefered watching the match to what she was explaining.She laughed n said I was ruining it.
I just feel like I need to get the upper hand back from her and have her chase again.
 
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