“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Calm down.Does less mean more.

toasttopper1879

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Ok,so I've worked hard in the last few weeks and its fair to say the girl I've been interested in is a done deal.
However I've got into a situation where I'm worried I'm about to go like over the top.The more I get close to her the more I want to be with her.I'm sure I'm supposed to pull back a bit cos I read it somewhere but can I hell remember where.I feel like I'm getting all soppy and I know I should nt be doing this cos I'm like letting her have control.
Its not easy to put distance between her when shes asking you to feel her arse and shes telling you her sexual fantasies and your part of it.
So all in all I'm getting too carried away and I'd love some advice on how to slow down and take a few steps sideways.Does less really mean she'll want more.
Cheers lads.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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TedJustAdmitIt

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In a word...yes.

What else do you have going on in your life?

Like hobbies and interests I mean?
Ideally you'd have too much going on to even be able to spend too much time with any woman.....no matter how horny:D
 

NewMan

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I'm like letting her have control
It's all about control.

Control your emotions and your actions and you can control her.

It's one big game - and it sounds like your not playing the game - your letting her play it. For sure you could lose any chance with her - but would you rather go on like it is - or would you rather try and maybe get her or lose her?

It sounds like this little attention Ho is playing with you.

These chicks thrive on attention - so you'd better stop giving her it.

Next time she asks you to feel her a##/whatever - give it a good grab, move in close - then say something like - "not bad, but it's getting a little soft"
 

toasttopper1879

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I did grab her arse and had a bloody good feel.Then told her to get some excercise.When she's declaring her sexual fantasy I told her to just put on my football top cos I prefered watching the match to what she was explaining.She laughed n said I was ruining it.
I just feel like I need to get the upper hand back from her and have her chase again.
 
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