"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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calling right after a date

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hey guys, when i go out i meet chicks in the city. most times they take public transit. these girls ride the buses and skytrain late at night, i wont even do that in the day. so my question is, is it alright to phone a girl right after the date to check to see if she made it home okay?

maybe a quick call like: "hey, im just making sure you weren't mugged or stabbed on your way home, no, okay, great, talk to you later."

what do you think, any suggestions or avoid the phone call altogether?

topher
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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not on the first few dates, but once you get to know each other better yeah you can although it will seem weird you phoning to check she is alrite after everytime you go out!
 
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Shouldn't you be driving them home?
 
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Tell her to drop you a txt when she gets home.

Alternatively, you recognise that she's a big girl, and she can look after herself
 
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me, i would probably do a quick call or text.

i dont think its a bad idea to do that, depends on you IMO

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"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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NO CALL, NO TEXT MESSAGING.

Wait 3 days - She doesnt forget you and also so she knows you busy and arent desperate for her.
 
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Originally posted by padrote
Shouldn't you be driving them home?
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I'm not going 25km each way (50km total) out of my way to drop off a chick on dates 1-3, thats too chumpy for me.

But upon further consideration of your guys comments (thanks), i believe i would phone only if she is LTR potential after date 3.

topher
 
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