calling or texting first if they don't ever pick up

[big weezy]

i know everyone says here call always dont text, but everytime i call they never pick up.. so it sets me back a few days (or few weeks depending what's going on in their schedule over the time like going away etc) before i text something.. sometimes i get dates sometimes i dont.

wouldn't i be better off texting first rather than calling?

i guess a non returned called within a timely manner just isn't worth it.

 

[Pierce]

They don't call back or text you back??

I would just wait a day and text something like " i see your a little shy" or something like that.

 

[JdelaSilviera]

Text, most people don´t pickup the phone at first try.... Girls are social butterflies, so they can be terribly difficult to reach...

 

[MurdocNiccals]

I ALWAYS text (or IM her). If she doesn't text back don't bother. With calls it's sometimes hard to keep up a conversation and can get kinda complicated as you've discovered...

 

[Young Juan]

I prefer to call and if she doesn't answer, send a text kinda as my vm, asking about whatever I was calling about. I get a decent response rate

 

[Deadly_Ripped]

Why don't you leave a message? If she never returns your message, then she doesn't have enough interest to warrant any further contact.

 

[PapiChulo]

no returned call or message means no interest.

it doesnt really matter what you do- call, text, send a letter,etc.

I just dialed one up and she doesnt pick up because she recognizes my number. Then I asked my buddy to call her under "private" and not only she picks up right away, but leads a conversation with him without even knowing who it is (stupid b!tch). He says "I am John, from one of your .... blah blah...."

Some wont pick up if they dont recognize the number - they are simply too stupid and scared. Otherwise will tr to get your number as soon as possible,so they can ignore it right off the bet.

I will call and if there is no answer the first time or two, I will send a text to entice her and show her that I could not really care less. They know you called anyway. If she goes cold on you, you go colder.

 

[RSanders219]

Nowadays man, it's way more common to text anyone than call. I'd say text first time, then next time you wanna get in touch with the girl and everything went well just call.