"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Calling old clients to get in touch again, how do I do this?

Starriol

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Hi there guys.

I was reading a book about the worst 25 mistakes salesmen do and one of them was not staying in touch with old customers.

I work as a computers tech so I need to sell myself in order to get clients.

The problem is that I don't have a close relationship with most of these people and I feel quite insecure about calling them. And I don't have emails.

I fear I might bother them with the call...

So how do you guys handle this matters?

Thanks!
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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flippinfreak

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If you at least kept their contact details and the services that you had provided to them in the past you can always save yourself. In terms of women, it's remembering their name, and a little something about them.

Just make sure that when you call them up, you have a comparative price and an updated quote, along with comments and remembrances from your old contact(if you are dealing with a new buyer).

You need confidence though. If you really want to psyche yourself up, send them an email, just so you know, that they know, who will be calling.
 
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