"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Calling old clients to get in touch again, how do I do this?

Starriol

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Hi there guys.

I was reading a book about the worst 25 mistakes salesmen do and one of them was not staying in touch with old customers.

I work as a computers tech so I need to sell myself in order to get clients.

The problem is that I don't have a close relationship with most of these people and I feel quite insecure about calling them. And I don't have emails.

I fear I might bother them with the call...

So how do you guys handle this matters?

Thanks!
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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flippinfreak

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If you at least kept their contact details and the services that you had provided to them in the past you can always save yourself. In terms of women, it's remembering their name, and a little something about them.

Just make sure that when you call them up, you have a comparative price and an updated quote, along with comments and remembrances from your old contact(if you are dealing with a new buyer).

You need confidence though. If you really want to psyche yourself up, send them an email, just so you know, that they know, who will be calling.
 
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