Calling me a flake

[popsickle]

So I've been hanging out with this girl a few times, mainly for drinks. I had to cancel/reschedule a couple of times for legitimate work related reasons - traveling to other states etc. Last time I saw her she was teasing me about what a flake I was and how "many other girls have probably told me that before". I'd kind of see that as positive usually, but then she's not particularly receptive to kino - overall mixed signals. How do you guys respond to that normally, just give the "I've been busy" line? I don't want to be dismissed as a player, I think she's quite cool.

 

[logicallefty]

In a mysterious way you can tell her you are an adult that has a responsibility and that other girls understand your employment is a top priority.

I like this^. Since you are traveling you could add "My harem of ladies knows no state boundaries and they all need my lovin' too"

 

[The Duke]

Women often mirror the vibe you give off. They are liquid creatures that fill the shape you create in front of them. So my suggestion is stop acting like a damn woman and act like a man by following thru on what you agreed upon!

 

[Urbanyst]

How about....tell the truth which is YOU WERE BUSY WITH WORK SH*T.

You know when I started to REALLY get laid a lot? When I abandoned all fraudulent practices and starting being real with these women. Being FAKE is for insecure people.