So I've been hanging out with this girl a few times, mainly for drinks. I had to cancel/reschedule a couple of times for legitimate work related reasons - traveling to other states etc. Last time I saw her she was teasing me about what a flake I was and how "many other girls have probably told me that before". I'd kind of see that as positive usually, but then she's not particularly receptive to kino - overall mixed signals. How do you guys respond to that normally, just give the "I've been busy" line? I don't want to be dismissed as a player, I think she's quite cool.
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Calling me a flake
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"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
logicallefty
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I like this^. Since you are traveling you could add "My harem of ladies knows no state boundaries and they all need my lovin' too"
The Duke
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Women often mirror the vibe you give off. They are liquid creatures that fill the shape you create in front of them. So my suggestion is stop acting like a damn woman and act like a man by following thru on what you agreed upon!
How about....tell the truth which is YOU WERE BUSY WITH WORK SH*T.
You know when I started to REALLY get laid a lot? When I abandoned all fraudulent practices and starting being real with these women. Being FAKE is for insecure people.
You know when I started to REALLY get laid a lot? When I abandoned all fraudulent practices and starting being real with these women. Being FAKE is for insecure people.