So I've been hanging out with this girl a few times, mainly for drinks. I had to cancel/reschedule a couple of times for legitimate work related reasons - traveling to other states etc. Last time I saw her she was teasing me about what a flake I was and how "many other girls have probably told me that before". I'd kind of see that as positive usually, but then she's not particularly receptive to kino - overall mixed signals. How do you guys respond to that normally, just give the "I've been busy" line? I don't want to be dismissed as a player, I think she's quite cool.
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
Calling me a flake
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What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.
You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.
Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.
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I like this^. Since you are traveling you could add "My harem of ladies knows no state boundaries and they all need my lovin' too"
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Women often mirror the vibe you give off. They are liquid creatures that fill the shape you create in front of them. So my suggestion is stop acting like a damn woman and act like a man by following thru on what you agreed upon!
How about....tell the truth which is YOU WERE BUSY WITH WORK SH*T.
You know when I started to REALLY get laid a lot? When I abandoned all fraudulent practices and starting being real with these women. Being FAKE is for insecure people.
You know when I started to REALLY get laid a lot? When I abandoned all fraudulent practices and starting being real with these women. Being FAKE is for insecure people.