So I've been hanging out with this girl a few times, mainly for drinks. I had to cancel/reschedule a couple of times for legitimate work related reasons - traveling to other states etc. Last time I saw her she was teasing me about what a flake I was and how "many other girls have probably told me that before". I'd kind of see that as positive usually, but then she's not particularly receptive to kino - overall mixed signals. How do you guys respond to that normally, just give the "I've been busy" line? I don't want to be dismissed as a player, I think she's quite cool.
Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single
She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.
You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.
The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.
Calling me a flake
- Thread starter popsickle
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
logicallefty
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I like this^. Since you are traveling you could add "My harem of ladies knows no state boundaries and they all need my lovin' too"
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Women often mirror the vibe you give off. They are liquid creatures that fill the shape you create in front of them. So my suggestion is stop acting like a damn woman and act like a man by following thru on what you agreed upon!
How about....tell the truth which is YOU WERE BUSY WITH WORK SH*T.
You know when I started to REALLY get laid a lot? When I abandoned all fraudulent practices and starting being real with these women. Being FAKE is for insecure people.
You know when I started to REALLY get laid a lot? When I abandoned all fraudulent practices and starting being real with these women. Being FAKE is for insecure people.