"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Calling her....

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As I been reading some post on here. I noticed there are some situations going on about... Guys going on a date with a girl they just met. Then, something doesn't work out or go right. But, you thought you had a good time and she is interested in you. Now, you gotta make plans for a different day. So, you're wondering should I next her or wait for her to call back.

So, I started thinking about waiting for her to call you back. By, her calling you back shows she is interested in you. But, I've noticed that some girls (in my personal experience) wait for the guy to call back. Most, will call you back but, I've known girls who are shy or believe it's the mans job to call and make the plans.

And they sit and wait for the guy to call back. When he doesn't they, think he is not interested and move on. If something came up and you have to re-arrange a date or whatever. You may be missing out on something if you wait for her call. If she keeps putting off a date then, you know she isn't interested and you next her. I don't see anything wrong with calling her again to make a new arrangement. Aslong as you don't call her a couple times a day and leave a couple voicemails you won't come off as needy.

Anyways, just something to think about... Feel free to discuss this topic. I'd like to hear other opinions.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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I agree. This is what happens when someone with no calibration skills tries to be the prize. This is also what happens when guys love nexting more than they love the game
 

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ready123 said:
I agree. This is what happens when someone with no calibration skills tries to be the prize. This is also what happens when guys love nexting more than they love the game
Yeah, some guys do next too easily.
 
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