"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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As I been reading some post on here. I noticed there are some situations going on about... Guys going on a date with a girl they just met. Then, something doesn't work out or go right. But, you thought you had a good time and she is interested in you. Now, you gotta make plans for a different day. So, you're wondering should I next her or wait for her to call back.

So, I started thinking about waiting for her to call you back. By, her calling you back shows she is interested in you. But, I've noticed that some girls (in my personal experience) wait for the guy to call back. Most, will call you back but, I've known girls who are shy or believe it's the mans job to call and make the plans.

And they sit and wait for the guy to call back. When he doesn't they, think he is not interested and move on. If something came up and you have to re-arrange a date or whatever. You may be missing out on something if you wait for her call. If she keeps putting off a date then, you know she isn't interested and you next her. I don't see anything wrong with calling her again to make a new arrangement. Aslong as you don't call her a couple times a day and leave a couple voicemails you won't come off as needy.

Anyways, just something to think about... Feel free to discuss this topic. I'd like to hear other opinions.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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I agree. This is what happens when someone with no calibration skills tries to be the prize. This is also what happens when guys love nexting more than they love the game
 
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ready123 said:
I agree. This is what happens when someone with no calibration skills tries to be the prize. This is also what happens when guys love nexting more than they love the game
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Yeah, some guys do next too easily.
 
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