There is one thing I learnt and it's that women and accountability REALLY doesn't mix well at all and here's my theory. While man are mostly logical rational beings, women are mostly emotional. Therefore, negative emotion means bad. When someone logically tell you you were wrong or made a mistake, they're asking you to be accountable for what you've done which mostly create negative emotions for a women. Most men have no trouble dealing with that as it is the logical way to do so, we agree with the facts. Women, not so much. So in the end, you are an a$shole for making her feel this way. Calling someone out on their mistake is a MAN thing to do. It doesn't have desired effect on WOMEN. That's why dudes do it though.
So let's say she's telling you about something that happened at her workplace, and she obviously fcked up. What's your instint? Offer solution right? That's the guy way. Now reverse roles, you fcked up at work and you're telling her about it, what is she gonna say? Most probably something along the lines of ; Don't worry, be happy bs... that's the chick way.
Here's a reality tho, you can still pass the msg without making her feel TOO bad about it.
Instead of being direct about the issue and offering a solution, use the C&F trick; slap her on the ass and says something like "You better not do it again if not I'ma have to spank u sum mo *****!"
She'll laugh yellow, and move on. She'll reflect on it later in a calmer, less emo atmosphere and she might very well correct the situation. Most of the times, it's tiny little things that are just not worth making drama about. You gotta adjust to your girl if you're an alpha; speak her language. Has nothing to do with letting it go. If you don't do anything at all, then ya that's beta. But if you start reprimanding her like a kid and forcing her to have all those meanie emotions, then you are a controlling blue pill alpha. Be a real red pill alpha 2.0 and speak her language, chances are that later when she reflects on it, she's actually gonna start feeling bad for making a mistake while you were still so nice to her by turning it into a joke
Works wonder with my main chick... and the sides too.
Remember, this isn't for big ass mistakes... if she monumentally fcks up, then what I usually do is I still do the C&F technique but then a day or two later I'll come back to her with something like "You know, I was thinking about what happened the other time and I was wondering if this or that wouldn't have been a better way to deal with the situation?" If she gets angry or start going aggro; "Anyways what are we doing this weekend? Beach?"
If the problem doesn't re-occur, well guess what...
If it does re-occur, you got a dumb b1tch or she just doesn't give a fck, move on....
