"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Calling an AW on her games?

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Spinback signing in. Greeting's everybody, this is my first post.

Just hoping a few experienced posters in here can share their experiences on the following topic: Attention wh#res.

Im going to make this brief.

Met a girl not long ago, everything was going fine then out of nowhere she began with the games. By games, I mean not returning txts, calls etc.
Showing little interest, a complete difference from the previous week.

Taking into consideration, everything was played cool here on my part.

Shortly after, I came to find out that she was spinning other men at the same time as me, but she did not no i Knew. Obviously, she was next without me even telling her and away I went. Im well aware these women are no good to man or beast.

She got in touch a few days back, I could not resist calling her on her sh#t.

Im aware a DJ should not act bothered or let her no It has bothered me in anyway and just next her without the time of day. But I could not resist.

So in a gentlemanly manner, I let her know that I knew what her game was, and basically told her I had no interest in her because of it.

Got a responce back reading "How dare you". My god, women!!

Has anyone called a women up on this, and do you think It's wise to do so?

I mean hell, she means nothing to me anyway and really is no good to me, I certaintly am not wanting anything else to do with her.

Thoughts anyone?

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"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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You probably just want to tap it hard this time. However, she could care less so don't let it bother you. Do you think it was wise? Unless you have intentions of caring, I think it was harmless that you called her out because who cares?
 

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weakepedea said:
You probably just want to tap it hard this time. However, she could care less so don't let it bother you. Do you think it was wise? Unless you have intentions of caring, I think it was harmless that you called her out because who cares?
It just felt good by letting her know that I knew what her game was if you get me? She didn't have a clue i knew about it.

I just want to know other thought's on the matter because DJ's walk away and say nothing, I got a little buzz telling her, obviously she was pi#sed because of the responce I recieved from her but serves her right.

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It just felt good by letting her know that I knew what her game was if you get me? She didn't have a clue i knew about it.

I just want to know other thought's on the matter because DJ's walk away and say nothing, I got a little buzz telling her, obviously she was pi#sed because of the responce I recieved from her but serves her right.

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Yeah you did good, you're happy, and like Christopher said, you may have intrigued her.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Yeah, I know where you's are coming from here.. ;)

It would of been a shock in the first instance to her, and she was obviously pis#ed recieving the responce she did from me as it would of been totally unexpected.

But there is no doubting, she now know's that I dont condemn that sort of behaviour from women, so who know's what she is thinking?

On the other hand, I have made it quite clear I have no interest in her now.

And that is exactly the way I feel, one chance, one chance only :up:

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