"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Calling an AW on her games?

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Spinback signing in. Greeting's everybody, this is my first post.

Just hoping a few experienced posters in here can share their experiences on the following topic: Attention wh#res.

Im going to make this brief.

Met a girl not long ago, everything was going fine then out of nowhere she began with the games. By games, I mean not returning txts, calls etc.
Showing little interest, a complete difference from the previous week.

Taking into consideration, everything was played cool here on my part.

Shortly after, I came to find out that she was spinning other men at the same time as me, but she did not no i Knew. Obviously, she was next without me even telling her and away I went. Im well aware these women are no good to man or beast.

She got in touch a few days back, I could not resist calling her on her sh#t.

Im aware a DJ should not act bothered or let her no It has bothered me in anyway and just next her without the time of day. But I could not resist.

So in a gentlemanly manner, I let her know that I knew what her game was, and basically told her I had no interest in her because of it.

Got a responce back reading "How dare you". My god, women!!

Has anyone called a women up on this, and do you think It's wise to do so?

I mean hell, she means nothing to me anyway and really is no good to me, I certaintly am not wanting anything else to do with her.

Thoughts anyone?

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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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You probably just want to tap it hard this time. However, she could care less so don't let it bother you. Do you think it was wise? Unless you have intentions of caring, I think it was harmless that you called her out because who cares?
 

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weakepedea said:
You probably just want to tap it hard this time. However, she could care less so don't let it bother you. Do you think it was wise? Unless you have intentions of caring, I think it was harmless that you called her out because who cares?
It just felt good by letting her know that I knew what her game was if you get me? She didn't have a clue i knew about it.

I just want to know other thought's on the matter because DJ's walk away and say nothing, I got a little buzz telling her, obviously she was pi#sed because of the responce I recieved from her but serves her right.

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It just felt good by letting her know that I knew what her game was if you get me? She didn't have a clue i knew about it.

I just want to know other thought's on the matter because DJ's walk away and say nothing, I got a little buzz telling her, obviously she was pi#sed because of the responce I recieved from her but serves her right.

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Yeah you did good, you're happy, and like Christopher said, you may have intrigued her.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Yeah, I know where you's are coming from here.. ;)

It would of been a shock in the first instance to her, and she was obviously pis#ed recieving the responce she did from me as it would of been totally unexpected.

But there is no doubting, she now know's that I dont condemn that sort of behaviour from women, so who know's what she is thinking?

On the other hand, I have made it quite clear I have no interest in her now.

And that is exactly the way I feel, one chance, one chance only :up:

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