"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Hey just curious if there were any other poker fanatics on here...

How often do you all play and what sites do you play on?

I like playing cash 1-2NL games and I play a little online at PokerStars. I'm looking to start playing in more tournaments so if anyone plays routinely just respond to this thread.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Sup

Im a big poker fan myself. Hey if you wanna play some poker or wanna just talk about poker PM me.
 

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Online poker player here. I'm training hard ATM looking to turn pro at some stage.
 

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Italia check your inbox.

Wolf you play on PokeStars? What kind of games or tourneys do you play? I might be playing in a 1-2 NL cash game tomorrow wish me luck lol..
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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I thought Bush had banned online poker in the states?

Love the game.

Anyone read 'The making of a poker player' by matt matross? Good intro book.
 

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r0cky said:
I play once in a while. Won a couple bucks at a tournament in atlantic city last month
Nice. I'm heading to AC in a few weeks. Where was the tourny and how much was the buy in and prize?
 
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