Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Calling All Players!!!!!!! Help

cesar

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I need some help!!!...when i see a girl i really like, i do **** all...as she walks pass me and i dont say nothing

i want to go up and say something...which is the best opening i can use in any situation?

because when talking i become more confident, and it flows normally.

It just about going to say something!! 1st.

help please
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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I.A.F.Y.B.

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Read the Dj Bible
 

Robert28

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keep it simple. when she walks by(dont wait til shes 10 feet past you already) say something like "wow, you smell good what is the name of that perfume you're wearing?" then go from there.
 

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When you see her, and you know you have to say something, think of something else as shes approaching you, and as you're within range to start the conversation or to approach, then snap back and simply spit it out. Not giving yourself time to brood and think about starting the conversation and just jumping out there confidently is the best thing you can do, and this works better if you're lacking the confidence to simply lock and approach.
 

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"Hey you look like my friend.. C3PO"
Lame but better than nothing,
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Warrior74

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If they make eye contact, look her in the eye and say 'hello' continue from there.
 

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remotecontrol said:
so im at the club last night...its packed and im at the bar waiting forever to get served...i turn to the cute girl behind me and say "hey you can go in front of me, just order me a couple of cokes with your drinks OK", so i put my coins on the bar and let her through. I thought she would get serves quicker, as is usually the case...anyhow she eventually gets served and we start talkin from there on....get it...use a bad situation like that as an oppertunity...plus women like a guy who gets them to do things for him hint hint
LOL, I used to use that one, but only when the girl was in front of me and I couldn't get a spot at the actual bar. Either way, good stuff!
 

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Warrior74 said:
If they make eye contact, look her in the eye and say 'hello' continue from there.
I 2nd that. Be sure to hold the eye contact and stop walking to let her know ur not just passing by. If she continues to hold eye contact, she's hella game.
 

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cesar said:
I need some help!!!...when i see a girl i really like, i do **** all...as she walks pass me and i dont say nothing

i want to go up and say something...which is the best opening i can use in any situation?

because when talking i become more confident, and it flows normally.

It just about going to say something!! 1st.

help please
Sometimes the best opener is speaking exactly what's on your mind.

"Hey what's up.. You know what? I know it sounds ridiculous, but I've been sitting here debating what pickup line to throw at you, and I've been drawing blanks all night. How about your name?"

I can't tell you how many times I'm just honest with a woman. As long as you come across confident, she'll smile at you and maybe even giggle a little bit. It's not so much what you say, but how you say it.
 
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