“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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cesar

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I need some help!!!...when i see a girl i really like, i do **** all...as she walks pass me and i dont say nothing

i want to go up and say something...which is the best opening i can use in any situation?

because when talking i become more confident, and it flows normally.

It just about going to say something!! 1st.

help please
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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I.A.F.Y.B.

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Read the Dj Bible
 

Robert28

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keep it simple. when she walks by(dont wait til shes 10 feet past you already) say something like "wow, you smell good what is the name of that perfume you're wearing?" then go from there.
 

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When you see her, and you know you have to say something, think of something else as shes approaching you, and as you're within range to start the conversation or to approach, then snap back and simply spit it out. Not giving yourself time to brood and think about starting the conversation and just jumping out there confidently is the best thing you can do, and this works better if you're lacking the confidence to simply lock and approach.
 

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"Hey you look like my friend.. C3PO"
Lame but better than nothing,
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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If they make eye contact, look her in the eye and say 'hello' continue from there.
 

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remotecontrol said:
so im at the club last night...its packed and im at the bar waiting forever to get served...i turn to the cute girl behind me and say "hey you can go in front of me, just order me a couple of cokes with your drinks OK", so i put my coins on the bar and let her through. I thought she would get serves quicker, as is usually the case...anyhow she eventually gets served and we start talkin from there on....get it...use a bad situation like that as an oppertunity...plus women like a guy who gets them to do things for him hint hint
LOL, I used to use that one, but only when the girl was in front of me and I couldn't get a spot at the actual bar. Either way, good stuff!
 

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Warrior74 said:
If they make eye contact, look her in the eye and say 'hello' continue from there.
I 2nd that. Be sure to hold the eye contact and stop walking to let her know ur not just passing by. If she continues to hold eye contact, she's hella game.
 

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cesar said:
I need some help!!!...when i see a girl i really like, i do **** all...as she walks pass me and i dont say nothing

i want to go up and say something...which is the best opening i can use in any situation?

because when talking i become more confident, and it flows normally.

It just about going to say something!! 1st.

help please
Sometimes the best opener is speaking exactly what's on your mind.

"Hey what's up.. You know what? I know it sounds ridiculous, but I've been sitting here debating what pickup line to throw at you, and I've been drawing blanks all night. How about your name?"

I can't tell you how many times I'm just honest with a woman. As long as you come across confident, she'll smile at you and maybe even giggle a little bit. It's not so much what you say, but how you say it.
 
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