"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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I need some help!!!...when i see a girl i really like, i do **** all...as she walks pass me and i dont say nothing

i want to go up and say something...which is the best opening i can use in any situation?

because when talking i become more confident, and it flows normally.

It just about going to say something!! 1st.

help please
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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keep it simple. when she walks by(dont wait til shes 10 feet past you already) say something like "wow, you smell good what is the name of that perfume you're wearing?" then go from there.
 
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When you see her, and you know you have to say something, think of something else as shes approaching you, and as you're within range to start the conversation or to approach, then snap back and simply spit it out. Not giving yourself time to brood and think about starting the conversation and just jumping out there confidently is the best thing you can do, and this works better if you're lacking the confidence to simply lock and approach.
 
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"Hey you look like my friend.. C3PO"
Lame but better than nothing,
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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If they make eye contact, look her in the eye and say 'hello' continue from there.
 
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remotecontrol said:
so im at the club last night...its packed and im at the bar waiting forever to get served...i turn to the cute girl behind me and say "hey you can go in front of me, just order me a couple of cokes with your drinks OK", so i put my coins on the bar and let her through. I thought she would get serves quicker, as is usually the case...anyhow she eventually gets served and we start talkin from there on....get it...use a bad situation like that as an oppertunity...plus women like a guy who gets them to do things for him hint hint
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LOL, I used to use that one, but only when the girl was in front of me and I couldn't get a spot at the actual bar. Either way, good stuff!
 
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Warrior74 said:
If they make eye contact, look her in the eye and say 'hello' continue from there.
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I 2nd that. Be sure to hold the eye contact and stop walking to let her know ur not just passing by. If she continues to hold eye contact, she's hella game.
 
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cesar said:
I need some help!!!...when i see a girl i really like, i do **** all...as she walks pass me and i dont say nothing

i want to go up and say something...which is the best opening i can use in any situation?

because when talking i become more confident, and it flows normally.

It just about going to say something!! 1st.

help please
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Sometimes the best opener is speaking exactly what's on your mind.

"Hey what's up.. You know what? I know it sounds ridiculous, but I've been sitting here debating what pickup line to throw at you, and I've been drawing blanks all night. How about your name?"

I can't tell you how many times I'm just honest with a woman. As long as you come across confident, she'll smile at you and maybe even giggle a little bit. It's not so much what you say, but how you say it.
 
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