"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Calling all online game masters

thirtyplus

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This is it. I am officially asking for your expertise.

This is the one area of my game that is not up to snuff: for the life if me I can't figure out how to consistently and regularly make online game work for me.

I had a MySpace for two years, it never paid off.

Have a facebook right now, nada.

Have tried craigs list....did get laid off that...once.

Do have an okcupid now, have gotten 2 numbers, haven't even bothered trying to convert them (1 fat girl 1 neurotic girl)

Really spotty results as you can see.

So, for all those out there who have had a good amount of success with online game, what are you doing, and how are you doing it?

You don't need to post your profiles or the ads you use but a good example of overall structure would be great.

I know some guys on this forum have made comments before suggesting it needs to be broken down according to a target audience and so forth.

Please, enlighten me....I am a willing student here.

What really works in online game?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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thomasM

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If you look like a male model and you are a doctor, lawyer, etc. you can get virtually any woman you want online, if you are ugly forget it.
 

Francisco d'Anconia

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Search the forum, WAY too many threads already exist about online sarging.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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LegendaryGame

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I must proclaim myself online game champ, and yes there is a treasure of women out there. People just dont know how to properly type a conversation.. ill use myspace for now. First and foremost is to have a clean neat page, with some music. I can help you out with bein clean, next is to make sure you got good pics of u. if you are urban take urban style, if you think your ugly or somethin jus take one in a suit next to your ride or wear a nice outfit thats modern and make sure your hair is cut and thats the minimum.. have like 2 pics at least and 2 other pics of stuff you like. say a music cd or somethin.. the reason is when a girl views it she'll think you're a normal guy and not suspect. Lastly, message any hot girls and say "hows it goin?" followed by a friend request and power up your page . More info will follow if you post up how its goin or what help you need on
 
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