"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Calling all online game masters

thirtyplus

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This is it. I am officially asking for your expertise.

This is the one area of my game that is not up to snuff: for the life if me I can't figure out how to consistently and regularly make online game work for me.

I had a MySpace for two years, it never paid off.

Have a facebook right now, nada.

Have tried craigs list....did get laid off that...once.

Do have an okcupid now, have gotten 2 numbers, haven't even bothered trying to convert them (1 fat girl 1 neurotic girl)

Really spotty results as you can see.

So, for all those out there who have had a good amount of success with online game, what are you doing, and how are you doing it?

You don't need to post your profiles or the ads you use but a good example of overall structure would be great.

I know some guys on this forum have made comments before suggesting it needs to be broken down according to a target audience and so forth.

Please, enlighten me....I am a willing student here.

What really works in online game?
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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thomasM

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If you look like a male model and you are a doctor, lawyer, etc. you can get virtually any woman you want online, if you are ugly forget it.
 

Francisco d'Anconia

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Search the forum, WAY too many threads already exist about online sarging.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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LegendaryGame

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I must proclaim myself online game champ, and yes there is a treasure of women out there. People just dont know how to properly type a conversation.. ill use myspace for now. First and foremost is to have a clean neat page, with some music. I can help you out with bein clean, next is to make sure you got good pics of u. if you are urban take urban style, if you think your ugly or somethin jus take one in a suit next to your ride or wear a nice outfit thats modern and make sure your hair is cut and thats the minimum.. have like 2 pics at least and 2 other pics of stuff you like. say a music cd or somethin.. the reason is when a girl views it she'll think you're a normal guy and not suspect. Lastly, message any hot girls and say "hows it goin?" followed by a friend request and power up your page . More info will follow if you post up how its goin or what help you need on
 
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