"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Calling all experienced DJs!! Wow...im really slipping!...

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I havent approached in so long! I cant even remember the last time i even tried....today i was at the mall and i found myself just able to look and think about it but not actually doing it...i think im falling back...id say im a little rough but you at least have to attempt it to actually be tough....

all the openers i know i forget at the moment i even think about approach...even if i comment on the thi8ngs around me...i automatically go into default and start asking the boring typical questions like "whats your name? where ya from? what school do you do to? really? hhaha..blah blah"

its friday night and i should be out...but i have no motivation to go out by myself knowing i have no friends...i told this hb9 i used to know when i used to live in LA(we both moved back to the San Francisco area) and said i was even going to the New Years Eve ball in San Francisco and she said shed be there too....knowing nobody i know is going to go there i dont want to go by myself and look like a loser....

man! life is sucking right now...cant wait till a graduate so i can travel abroad and teach english!...


p.s. sorry for the negativity.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Life has it's ups and downs. Focus on what's important at the moment (graduate) but try to keep other areas of your life balance if you can. And life does get a lot better/interesting after college.
 
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You go to school, right? You share that common interest with everyone there, and it gives you something to talk about. Making friends is about finding common ground. I bet there are clubs and organizations at school as well. That would give you twice the common ground, school plus the interest club.

People tend to get what they want out of life, whether they realize it or not. I'd guess that you actually like being alone. There's nothing wrong with that. I'm an only child who grew up in the middle of nowhere with absentee parents; being alone much of the time is fine with me. But realize that you control the level of your social interactions by how hard you work at them. Like anything else, with your social life, you get out of it what you put into it.
 
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