"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Calling all DJs in the Reston Virginia area

deeman

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Hey fellas, I am visiting Virginia (REston/Herdon) area for the week. Is there anyone out there that I can link up with to show me where all the ladies be hanging?
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Eternal

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Moved to the Wingman Forum.
 

Frank Zappa

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Yo dee, read the fairfax virginia post. I'd think if you're passing through your best bet is going to DC, Georgetown M-street (Foggy Bottom on the metro)... try Rhinos or other bars there. Or drive out to Adams Morgan. Try ballston, too, I really like it down there. Just take the metro to those places. From reston/herndon, I would find my way to 66 East, take it to Nutley St exit where the metro is and ride that in....

Virginia itself is kinda slow... I guess you could try Arlington... I spent my entire childhood 2-18 in Herndon/Oakton area and there is nothing there for adults. You can try Reston Town center during the day, or Tyson's Corner, but I'd still say your best bet would be DC. PM me if you got any questions or comments. Hope I helped you even though it was a little discombobulated. I just wrote what came to mind. I will be back in the area August 6-15. ~Zappa
 
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