"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Calling a girl you met at the club

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I met a girl at the club on Saturday, things went smoothly and I got her number. I was gonna call her Monday night but I'm not sure what to say. Previously when I met a girl at the club I usually added her on facebook or sent her text messages. Yea I know, not the coolest thing. I'd like to step up and call her over the phone that way I can get a better idea of whether she's interested or not. But I'm not sure what to say. I think we were both a little tipsy/drunk on Saturday so it feels kind of weird calling somebody I barely know sober. I don't like talking on the phone much as is.

I was thinking of just commenting about the night with maybe some playful flirting and then try to set up a meeting later on in the week. Is that standard? Just keeping the convo short and making plans for later? Any advice or tips in these kind of scenarios?
 

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text first to quench her thirst.........like U said keep it short, inject a nic name to form an anchor.........keep it light.
 
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She's interested or you wouldn't have a #. Call and ask her out, specific thing and simple. Should only take a few minutes. Save the conversation for the date.

If she answers your in. Go for it!
 
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Club number closes rank low in my book. Girls give those numbers out like candy. It's best to do a close ended text the night you meet so she knows you're serious about getting to know her. Just not one of those guys looking for phone numbers and quick hook ups. Anyways, the sooner to you talk I'd say the better you have it worked out, because most club interactions don't last longer than 5 minutes, so it's hard to make a lasting impression on a female.
 
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COD said:
text first to quench her thirst.........like U said keep it short, inject a nic name to form an anchor
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out of curiosity, does giving a nickname to a chick help anchor?
Cos my ex used to hang out with this guy who gave her a nickname and she loved it. Now this is only one chick, so whats the deal with nicknames?
 

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You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

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green69 said:
I met a girl at the club on Saturday, things went smoothly and I got her number. I was gonna call her Monday night but I'm not sure what to say. Previously when I met a girl at the club I usually added her on facebook or sent her text messages. Yea I know, not the coolest thing. I'd like to step up and call her over the phone that way I can get a better idea of whether she's interested or not. But I'm not sure what to say. I think we were both a little tipsy/drunk on Saturday so it feels kind of weird calling somebody I barely know sober. I don't like talking on the phone much as is.

I was thinking of just commenting about the night with maybe some playful flirting and then try to set up a meeting later on in the week. Is that standard? Just keeping the convo short and making plans for later? Any advice or tips in these kind of scenarios?
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Make plans!
 
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