Calling 2 days later, set up a date right?

[baurman]

Alright when you get a number and you call 2-3 days later. Do you set up the date like for Dinner or something?

Heres the thing, I called this girl 2-3 days after I got her number and asked her questions about herself like what school she went too, where she works, etc. I invited her out for the weekend with her friends and my friends but I kinda want to call her again but then again so she doesn't lose interest. But I don't know what the hell to talk about, juust random stuff? I mean I Just met the girl. Do I just wait until I see her again and then ask her out for dinner or should I just call her and ask her out even though I only knew her for like 2 hours?

 

[Telos]

Too much focus on one chick. Give her an option and move on. If she bites, she bites. If not, charge out again. I can feel your scarcity mentality emanating through every word of this post.

 

[Cashew]

If you set up a time to see her, don't call her again before you see her. See how it is when you two hang out or have dinner or whatever you have planned. If it goes well, you should be able to pick up on that vibe.

But between the call which sets the date up and the actual date, there should be no attempt from you to contact her.

 

[AKA FLEX]

Don't analyze it so much. Get her #, call during the week, set up a date (i wouldn't drop $40 for dinner on a first date but that's just me), go on the date, and try to score. It's really a simple process.

 

[chinwaggler]

phones should only be used to set up dates, not talk

 

[baurman]

Alright well I called her after I got her number 3 days later and I was just thinking if she'd lose interested cause I called her and then I didn't call her since.

 

[DonJuan11]

I called this girl 2-3 days after I got her number and asked her questions about herself like what school she went too, where she works, etc. I invited her out for the weekend with her friends and my friends

What are you crazy? Why would you invite her out with 10 people where there could be 101 distractions? You want to be alone with her, 1 on 1the whole time so she is concentrating on you, not your 6'1 hockey player friend.

but I kinda want to call her again but then again so she doesn't lose interest.

Dude, if you rob a bank, would you sit around loitering in front of the teller with the big bag of money? No, you make your hit and get out right away. Don't worry, she won't lose interest if she said yes to the date.

Do I just wait until I see her again and then ask her out for dinner or should I just call her and ask her out even though I only knew her for like 2 hours?

Huh?

Sounds like you are in love before you've even spent 2 min with her.

 

[rain63]

I wouldn't go for dinner... try something more active like going to a park or something... following up with coffee is always great with those things... or ice cream, ice cream is awesome... pretty much the food of the gods... i'm just kinda hungry i think.