"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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sportf190

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alrite guys pretty much i like this girl who is one of those girls who can be *****y because shes really cute and hot... heres the situation got her number she came to my work tuesday gave her free food talked ... thursday nite.. we went to the club she needed a ride and we picked her up then came back later b/c of family **** she danced then i took her home.. havent hung out since and its been a week .. she always says we need to hang out like sunday but then i dont get a call when she says shell call me.. and the same tuesdy nite i told her lets hang out she took a nap didnt call me back and i IMEd her and she said she was mad tired... okay havent really talked to her since b/c she said she would call me yesterday and she didnt so i sent her a text last nite buti think her phone was off and here i am today havent heard...
do girls say they will call and they atgually wont im pretty sure shes interested in me.. and wants me to make the first move everytime... am i doing this rite and should i call or text her today?...

ps. on facebook she saw me delete some girls comment about hanging out and she writes in her status ... he is really tryin hard to prove he is goodfor me How cute :)
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Forget about her she is playing you.....just throw her away and never think about her again she is using you for her own selfish reasons. you gave her food, a ride home and you still havent tapped it. I say forget her and move on dont let her make you into her puppy...good luck.
 
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listen i know this sounds weird but i really dont think so... i called her today we talked for like 20 min and she is good gf material... doesnt seem like a hore and is really prettyy.. i know she may be playing me which is why i wont spend money on her or anything and im going to be carefulll
 
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Just listen ...you picked her up at a club and gave her a ride home ........How many times does she go to clubs and does she have a good job? I dont care just want you to understand what I mean, I say be careful because she probably sees you as a friend that she can use but like I stated in another post this is just advice its up to you to decide what to do ...I wish you goodluck and update.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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