"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Callin This Girl Problem?? Help

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sportf190

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alrite guys pretty much i like this girl who is one of those girls who can be *****y because shes really cute and hot... heres the situation got her number she came to my work tuesday gave her free food talked ... thursday nite.. we went to the club she needed a ride and we picked her up then came back later b/c of family **** she danced then i took her home.. havent hung out since and its been a week .. she always says we need to hang out like sunday but then i dont get a call when she says shell call me.. and the same tuesdy nite i told her lets hang out she took a nap didnt call me back and i IMEd her and she said she was mad tired... okay havent really talked to her since b/c she said she would call me yesterday and she didnt so i sent her a text last nite buti think her phone was off and here i am today havent heard...
do girls say they will call and they atgually wont im pretty sure shes interested in me.. and wants me to make the first move everytime... am i doing this rite and should i call or text her today?...

ps. on facebook she saw me delete some girls comment about hanging out and she writes in her status ... he is really tryin hard to prove he is goodfor me How cute :)
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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j0n024

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Forget about her she is playing you.....just throw her away and never think about her again she is using you for her own selfish reasons. you gave her food, a ride home and you still havent tapped it. I say forget her and move on dont let her make you into her puppy...good luck.
 
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listen i know this sounds weird but i really dont think so... i called her today we talked for like 20 min and she is good gf material... doesnt seem like a hore and is really prettyy.. i know she may be playing me which is why i wont spend money on her or anything and im going to be carefulll
 

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Just listen ...you picked her up at a club and gave her a ride home ........How many times does she go to clubs and does she have a good job? I dont care just want you to understand what I mean, I say be careful because she probably sees you as a friend that she can use but like I stated in another post this is just advice its up to you to decide what to do ...I wish you goodluck and update.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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