Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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ive called someone out on there disrespectful behaviour they dont just do it to me they do it to there loved ones aswell it must be normal to them, ive told them to only contact me when its reflected on,

im bound to get a "how ya doing " text sooner or later

would you lot bring up whether there contacting as theyve reflected on there ****ty behaviour?
best way to deal so the terms are now on yours?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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derby1 said:
ive called someone out on there disrespectful behaviour they dont just do it to me they do it to there loved ones aswell it must be normal to them, ive told them to only contact me when its reflected on,

im bound to get a "how ya doing " text sooner or later

would you lot bring up whether there contacting as theyve reflected on there ****ty behaviour?
best way to deal so the terms are now on yours?
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how dare you? LOLZ!!:p
 
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IMO if you laid your foot down then, when they text, you must follow thru, otherwise they don't think you meant it and you've lost frame
 
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thats what i mean do i bring it up its to with discourteous behaviour?
 
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It's ok to call them out on their bad behavior, but mix in some compliments, and then kiss her.

Example:

"You said you'd be ready an hour ago, what is wrong with you? I love that dress! You look really sexy. Now get your sorry, lazy ass ready".
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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derby1 said:
thats what i mean do i bring it up its to with discourteous behaviour?
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Yes, I would. At the very least you are demonstrating that you have boundaries that you are willing to enforce.

You don't have to be an a$$when you do it. Just ask if they have reflected on their behavior and what do they have to say about it. Their reply will speak volumes
 
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so days later ive had a text "you ok? got over your little telling me off" or something of those lines....

i dont find this acceptable adult communication presume best bet is to stay silent?
 
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know the person to well this isnt a new date
 
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